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First and foremost......I want to say thanks for taking the time to look at my profile and possibly adding me as a friend of yours.My name is Victor Clay and I'm 37. I have a partner of 12 years named Donald and he is 43. Yes we have an open relationship and I know that a lot of people don't approve with it but it's our lives.I am originally from Checotah, Oklahoma....home of Carrie Underwood...American Idol in case you don't watch TV.....her mom was my 4th grade school teacher.I attended several schools while growing up. I attended Council Hill, Checotah, Piedmont and Perkins-Tryon school districts. My sophomore year of high school my parents decided that they couldn't control me like I needed to be controlled and they placed me at the Oklahoma Lions Boys Ranch. The "Ranch" is a home for troubled teenage boys. Some of the boys were placed by their parents and others were placed by the state. Usually the boys only stayed there for a semester of the school year but had the option of staying longer if needed. The boys attended the public schools and were allowed to participate in extra circular activities. The boys would be able to do more in their free time according to their "ranking" at the ranch. This place was hell for me the first year because I thought my mom didn't love me anymore and didn't want to help me out. After my sophomore year I returned home and lived there for the summer with my mom and step-dad. I then realized that it wasn't the lack of love from my mother but she was looking out for my best interest. I personally decided that I wanted to go back to the ranch and finish high school. I achieved the highest ranking possible while living there and every time I look at the belt buckle I realize what my mother did for me. She made me become a strong individual that could stand on their own and not be afraid of what was to happen. My mother and I don't speak now because of the choice of lifestyle that I chose to live. I regretted my mother for the longest time for shunning me but I came to realize that its not me that is missing out but it's her.I work for Chili's in West Little Rock. I am also a makeup artist for several bodybuilders and fitness competitors around the country.I have taken a break from drag but I do enjoy traveling across the state doing shows (Miss Gay Arkansas 2003) and meeting new people.I also enjoy bowling. I get to do these two things with one of my best friends....Shane aka Kamrin Mikaels...he was one of my backup dancers when I won Miss Gay Arkansas and he has always been there for me. He then decided to start doing drag and I had the honor of announcing him as Miss Gay Arkansas 2005.I will tell you this first hand.....she is a wonderful entertainer and she was determined to do what alot of people are unable to do and that is win the state title on her first attempt. Shane makes me very proud to call him my child.I have 2 other active daughters....Mendigan Iman Starr who now resides in Atlanta, Ga. and she is one fierce bitch when she applies herself. She can paint like no ones business. My other active daughter is Zia D'yor, Miss Gay Diamond America 2008 and 1st alternate to Miss Gay Arkansas 2008. She is a Latino Goddess and can bring the house down with her moves and looks. I have one other daughter who is taking a break, Ambrosia, who I am also proud to call her family.There is a group of friends that I have dinner with each and every Monday night. They are considered my family. We are all disfunctional in our own way but we accept and love each other. We do everything together....camping, traveling, tornados, and porn stores. We try to attend at least one Razorback game each year. This is football season and its all about the Razorbacks, OU Sooners and OSU Cowboys.I adore my two dogs......Cody(Jack Russell....spawn of Satan) and Lucy(Daschund.....hurricane rescue puppy.....Donald says she is a refugee). Cody enjoys biting old people's ankles and Lucy enjoys reading books and watching video tapes....ok she eats them!!!!We purchased our first house together and moved into it in October 2007. Shane lives with us and it's great to be best friends and living together!! If you have never purchased a house.....its a huge hassel but as everyone told me it's worth everything.Nothing else to put except that if you know me.....then you know I'm a bitch ...no I really am......and you either love me or hate me. I was the only Miss Gay Arkansas to be voted by the gay community as Bitch of the Year. I am a 2 time Top 10 finalist at Miss Gay America.You can also catch me on E! True Hollywood Stories....Pageantry. I was featured on there with a couple of other entertainers. My name is put under someone elses body but just look for the blond and that would be me!!

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