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Why we started this page?
To let you know there is a problem and to ask you for your help!
Unfortunately, in our society, child abuse is still a topic no one wants to talk about.
But that doesn’t make it go away and it doesn’t help the affected kids!
Child abuse MUST be brought out into the public!
Child abuse is murder!
It is the murder of innocent children’s souls!
These children will suffer for the rest of their lives from the effects and the perpetrators often enough walk away without punishment or can go back to their normal lives after only a short time!
But this isn’t the end of the kids’ suffering.
Often, they are forced to see their torturers throughout the rest of their lives because the abuser is one of their relatives!
Help those kids!
Take a good look!
Listen!
Be there for those kids and make sure everybody knows who the perpetrators are!
Thank you!
Abuse destroys bodies, abuse destroys souls, abuse destroys lives.
Each and every one of you is affected!
It affects you because your co-worker constantly gets on your nerves and seems to be a different person from one day to the next.
It affects you because your father became an alcoholic because his sister was abused by their father.
It affects you because your health insurance rates are skyrocketing since consequential damages reach epidemic heights among the population.
It affects you because your wife suddenly remembers during childbirth that she was abused as a kid and from then on a different person.
It affects you because you can never really reach that friend of yours.
It affects you when that junkie who mugs you in the streets to get himself some of his repressive medicine.
It affects you in form of the superficiality, the “protective†masks and raised “walls†of the many people you encounter and would actually get to know better.
You are affected as the man who can’t value his girlfriend’s “yes†because she was never allowed to say “noâ€.
It affects you because the ruthless manager compensates for his (neglected) love with money and power.
It affects you as a father or mother when your child is assaulted and raped by the assailant who transforms his own experience of powerlessness into some mighty triumph over weaker people.
It affects you because that lady in your neighbourhood turns the volume of her stereo on high late at night, who curses herself at the top of her lungs in the middle of the night, who frequently yells at her kids when they come to visit her on weekends.
It affects you in the form of your best friend who at 15 started sleeping with as many guys as she could, who regularly embarrassed herself at parties – and you were finally forced to end that friendship because you didn’t get along anymore.
It affects you because your neighbour, who never had the chance to respect and value himself, can’t seem to respect and value you and your family.
It affects you through the many people on social security whose history aimed them directly toward invalidity which, among other things, makes up your own social security rates.
It affects you in form of your cousin concentrates on her sports achievements to the extent of self-abandonment to retain a positive self-image, thus, seriously endangering her health.
It affects you because your childhood friend suddenly changed in puberty and wouldn’t eat sensibly and walked around shabbily, who rarely ever washed herself anymore and who you lost contact with.
It affects you as the son of a mother who never really confronted her trauma even if you have always had a feeling of receiving covert messages from her and finally subconsciously picked up her trauma. Now you’re an adult and “heir†to her feelings, and you have your own overwhelming problems dealing with life.
It affects you as a partner because your girlfriend or your boyfriend harms themselves and you can’t keep them from doing it and almost fall apart from all this agony.
It affects you as the operator of a train when a stranger jumps off a bridge in front of your train and you can’t stop in time – and this haunts you for the rest of your life.
It affects you as a good friend when you listen, when you hear of your friend’s agony, when she tells you of what she has experienced that go way beyond your worst imagination.
It affects you as a human because as long as within many adults a war rages, of their untreated and traumatized childhoods, the outside and open wars will not end either.
It affects you because the many “tag alongsâ€, never ever criticising, do anything and believe whatever they are told, because they never learned any different.
It affects you in the form of the countless indirect victims – because a victim never suffers alone, their families and surroundings suffer with them.
It affects you because the world is what it is, and the psychological and physical rape of children is one if not THE main reason.
It affects you because there will not be any (socio-cultural) development as long as there are children suffering on this planet.
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