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About Me

I am not vain or narcissistic. I sometimes de-emphasize the physical and fail to give my appearance the consideration it deserves.I take charge of my emotions, rather than letting my emotions take charge of me.I can look fine yet totally broken.When needed, I give less affection than what i really feel.I can be a bestfriend and a best enemy.Comfortable and relaxed.I can breathe easily whether i have found the one or still on the lookout.I dont need someone to complete me rather im looking for someone who complements me.Self-confessed, I am CRAZY. One day I feel completely fine -- kicking butt at work, laughing and going out with my friends, planning vacations. And then when i see something that the two of us used to share, I'll burst into tears.I don't want pushing myself too hard to invite people into my life. If i feel that a thing is not meant for me, then I'll let go. But if I see or will be given even an ounce of reason to hold, then I will.I believe that in a relationship, there has to be an equal commitment from both people.When it comes to fighting, I make sure to play by rules. I know how to communicate in a rational manner when confronted with situations that may not be to my liking. (but well, it's not always easy to fight fair)Just because I act that way when faced with confrontation doesnt mean that I'm a pushover.When it comes to disagreements, I manage to let my feelings be known.According to some people, i have the ability to see things from the other person's perspective. Like what i've said, i can be a bestfriend.I approach the world from a deeper perspective than just a physical or appearance-based one that sometimes, I go to the extreme of putting everyone else's needs before mine.Yet, I don't want to try so hard to understand others.I wont allow anyone to exploit me .. I edited my profile at Freeweblayouts.net , check out these Myspace Layouts! Myspace Graphics

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Like what i've said above, I dont need someone to complete me. Yet, i'll be very thankful if i found some who complements me. It's a great feeling when someone wants to be with me because of the happiness we have when we're together. That even if corny jokes and senseless stories are told, it won't matter as long as we're together.I want someone who will make me feel respected, admired, attractive and special. That counts too.I like a hand to hold, another mind to bounce things off of, and somebody to cook for me -- or, at least, with me.I want an eternal optimist, someone who's able to see the silver lining in everything. It's great to know when a person appreciates every little thing I do. Even a smile would mean a lot to him, just because I own that smile.I'm looking for chivalry in my partner. I enjoy evening strolls and stolen glances.I want someone who looks for a solution to the problem at hand. A cool-headed one that often stops most disagreements from escalating into full-blown fights.I want someone who will make me feel comfortable about being me. It's a nice feeling when I can be who I really am with that person. No pretentions, no lies, no hypocrisy, because he accepts me for who I am. I can be funny, I can be embarrased, but it won't matter coz it doesn't matter to him.

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"You will find as you look back upon your life, that the moments when you have truly lived are the moments when you have done things in the spirit of love &"..:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-...
Posted by on Wed, 11 Jun 2008 03:36:00 GMT