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Big Ben - Austin VIP Promotions

"Live your life in such a way that when your feet hit the floor in the morning, Satan shudders and s

About Me



This is the Austin VIP Promotions myspace page, but I think it's essential to let clients, future business and joint ventures partners, and others (you beautiful ladies) know the kind of man I am. Let's face it, Myspace is a great way to meet attractive members of the opposite sex.
Not many people know I'm a published and internationally known writer/researcher that writes under a pen name on such topics of online dating, romance, dating, human sexuality and relationships. No kidding!I'm extremely affectionate with everyone in public or private, especially with that one special woman in my life. I'm BRUTUALLY honest and direct. Honest and direct enough to tell you things when you don't want to hear it, but need to as a REAL friend to you. I have a hopeless ROMANTIC & PASSIONATE HEART and love to constantly surprise and sweep the right woman off her feet always and often!
I DON'T get jealous, controlling, or possessive (completely useless emotions to me) of a woman's guy friends, family, career, or other girlfriends. Either you're with someone you trust; confident in yourself and selfless enough that you want the other person to be happy and fulfilled always. (Why is that so damn hard for most everyone to understand, is beyond me!)
I’m a true gentleman opening every car door for a woman always, ordering for a woman, but only after I find out what she wants to eat first, and paying for everything always. I'm a HUGE sarcastic smart ass (no ones perfect). Mama always said better to be a smart ass, then a dumb ass anyways! ; )
I will challenge you as a person to no end emotionally and mentally constantly. I want to take care of a woman, NOT because she needs me to, NOT because I have to, NOT because it's expected from me, but because I truly WANT to take care of a special woman in my life always.
I LOVE tattoos on a woman I think there very erotic & individualistic (I have 5 & counting). The sexiest thing about a woman to me is her INTELLIGENCE/EMOTIONAL DEPTH of character. A close second would be her SEXUALITY, which would be wild, open, giving, kinky and spontaneous.
I adore a woman that LOVES to dress sexy and provocative ALL the time in public and in the bedroom! All eyes on you ALL the time, is perfect by me. To me this signals a woman who is actuely confident in her body, herself and her sexuality.
A woman that's open to always ask for something or vocalize her fantasies, fears, dreams, opinions, and vulnerabilities to me!I don't want a comittment between myself and a woman, I want a total healthy sexual, physical, mental, and emotional ADDICTION to each other. So called committments come and go between men and women everyday, but TRUE addictions can last a lifetime!
Austin VIP Promotions is a party/event planning and bar promotions company based in Austin, TX. If you want special bottle service, VIP seating, private booths/rooms, limo or bus service, hotel reservations, airport pickup, special OFF THE MENU food items made for you or a guest at a restaurant, get on a exclusive event/nightclub guest lists, or anything else you might request. We take care of everything for YOU!We work special VIP deals out with restaurants, bars, nightclubs, and lounges in downtown Austin. You will save you money, time, & effort. You & your guests will be treated like special VIP's guaranteed.
* Divorce Parties
* Bachelor Parties
* Bachelorette Parties
* Birthday Parties
* Engagement Parties
* Post Wedding Parties
* Girls Night Out Parties
* Boys Night Out Parties
* Corporate Events
* Just Broke Up Parties
* College Graduation Parties
* Company Christmas Parties
* Restaurant & Bar Parties/Events
* Romantic evening planned for a special person
* Got a Job Promotion Party
* Need to impress a special or BIG client (I'm a X-Fortune 500 sales and marketing executive, which means I can wine/dine as good as they come. I can do it for YOU and your company just let me know!)
Myself (Big Ben) or one of my friendly staff will be your personal 1 on 1 concierge the whole night at a restaurant, strip club, bar, and/or nightclub of your choosing. We will make absolutely sure you will have the best VIP party/event humanly possible when your out in downtown Austin.
If you like to get on our guest list for future events, parties, and bar promotions please add us as a Myspace friend! : )
**Future Austin VIP Promotions websites and blogs will be at www.austinVIPpromotions.com, www.austinpartyscene.com, & www.austinrestaurantscene.com

Myspace Layouts at Pimp-My-Profile.com / Entwined

My Interests



WAY WAY too many...scuba diving (prefer shark diving mainly), skydiving, bunjee jumping, daily meditation, whitewater rafting, sculling (rowing in a one man scull like you see on Townlake - that's me) working out, traveling (especially out of the country), working with children, writing articles on various subjects, starting new businesses, reading and researching obsessively.

I'd like to meet:



I dare you not to shed some tears by watching this video with Dick and Rick Hoyt above. ..

Jesus, Dick & Rick Hoyt, Gandhi, John Lennon, Dalahi Lama, Jenna Jameson, Sigmund Freud, Marques De Sade, Leopold Von Sacher-Masoch, Buddha, Angelina Jolie, Leonardo Da Vinci, Helen of Troy, William Shakespeare, Marilyn Monroe, Aristole, Mozart, Beethoven, Cleopatra, Maya Angelou, Joan of Arc, Martin Luther King Jr., Robin Williams, Socrates, Albert Einstein, Benjamin Franklin, Machivelli, Queen of Sheba, Cassanova, Queen Nefertiti, Walt Disney, Helen Keller, J.P. Morgan, Bill Gates, Robert Kioyoski, Andrew Carnegie, Dale Carnegie, Abraham Lincoln, George Carlin, Plato, George Bernard Shaw, Mark Victor Hansen, Confucius, Henry David Thoreau, Ralph Waldo Emerson...

Music:



Seether, Disturbed, Metallica, Korn, Guns N' Roses, Three Days Grace, Audioslave, Sound Garden, Nirvana, Candlebox, The Black Crowes, Buckcherry, Breaking Benjamin, The Beatles, Rolling Stones, Green Day, Eric Clapton, Mudvayne, Chevelle, Deftones, Disturbed, Beastie Boys, Evanescence, iloveyouimsorrypleaseforgivemeandthankyou, Aerosmith, Godsmack, Kid Rock, Bruce Springsteen, Limp Bizkit, Marilyn Manson, Nickelback, Nonpoint, P.O.D, Papa Roach,

Pantera, A Perfect Circle, Rage Against The Machine, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Rob Zombie, Saliva, Sevendust, Smashing Pumpkins, Fleetwood Mac, Silverchair, Shinedown, Soil, Staind, Static X, Stone Sour, Alice In Chains, Stone Temple Pilots, System of The Down, Trust Company, Velvet Revolver, 3 Doors Down, Tool, Soil, Slipknot.

Movies:


Favorite movies lets see...Good Will Hunting, The Shawshank Redemption, Ghostbusters, Knocked Up, Awakenings, Meet Joe Black, Real Genius, 300, Slapshot, Caddyshack, Risky Business, When A Man Loves A Woman, Shallow Hal, The Green Mile, Pay it Forward, Full Metal Jacket, Big, Sixteen Candles, ALL the Star Wars, Matrix, Godfather, & Lord of The Rings movies, Platoon, Sin City, Varsity Blues, Top Gun, Million Dollar Baby, Life, The Girl Next Door, Sweet November, Boondock Saints, The Notebook (Good God I'm admitting this one in public), Patch Adams, The Color of Money, Cool Hand Luke, Jerry McGuire, The Outsiders, Legends Of The Fall, Wedding Crashers, 40 Year Old Virgin, High Fidelity, Forest Gump, Weird Science, American Beauty, The Dark Knight, 9 1/2 Weeks, The Silence of The Lambs, Casino, The Recruit, Goodfellas, Big Fish, The Hustler, Stand By Me, Say Anything, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, Scarface, Breakfast Club, Hitch, Secretary, Bachelor Party, Gladiator, Braveheart, American Psycho, The Last Samuari, Sleepers, The Departed, The Abyss, Pulp Fiction, Glengary Glenn Ross, Wall Street, Fight Club, Instinct, Boiler Room, Swingers, Into The Wild, What the Bleep Do We Know, The Devil's Advocate, Peaceful Warrior, The Bucket List, & Rounders.

Television:



I don't watch TV at all, haven't turned on the TV in over 3 months! But here a few I loved...Scrubs, Six Feet Under, The West Wing, The Discovery Channel, The History Channel, National Geographic, Entourage, Sopranos, Travel Channel, Nip Tuck, Tell Me You Love Me, Oz and Rescue Me.

Books:



I'm obsessed with reading, I read about 2-3 books a week. Conversations With God, The Secret, The Road Less Traveled, Lies My Teacher Told Me, Man's Search For Meaning, A Child Called It, The Mastery of Love, How to Win Friends & Influence People, Rich Dad/Poor Dad, The Tao of Pooh, Zero Limits, The Attraction Factor, Slowing Down To The Speed Of Life, The 4 Hour Work Week, Stupid White Men, What The Bleep Do We Know.

Heroes:

Anyone that lives there life like everyday is there last (not many) children with chronic illnesses or disabilites are by far my biggest inspirations and heroes. It's why in a couple years I will be starting The Smiley Girl Foundation a non-profit organization to help chronically ill and abused children under 10 years old in Texas.

My Blog

What Love Is To Me...

WHAT LOVE IS TO ME By Big Ben (actually this article was published under my pen name and no your not going to know that!)What is love?This age-old question has been argued, debated, and philosophized ...
Posted by Big Ben - Austin VIP Promotions on Mon, 06 Oct 2008 06:45:00 PST

Why Pessimism and Negativity Destroy Your Relationships...

Why Pessimism and Negativity Destroy Relationships and PeopleHave you ever met someone online or in person that you started to become friends with or maybe even possible lovers? Then the farther you g...
Posted by Big Ben - Austin VIP Promotions on Tue, 29 Jan 2008 07:30:00 PST

Why are women so scared when they finally meet a real man...

Why are women so scared when they finally meet a real man? A real man... The illusive myth, dream, legend, and folklore of the common day woman around the world. The thing every single woman hopes and...
Posted by Big Ben - Austin VIP Promotions on Sun, 06 Jan 2008 01:03:00 PST

22 Ways To Make A Woman Smile

Ever wonder who writes the original sayings like this that eventually get passed around the internet and myspace? Well, here's a checklist or whatever you want to call it that I personally wrote and g...
Posted by Big Ben - Austin VIP Promotions on Sun, 16 Dec 2007 01:35:00 PST

Without the Immortal Love of a Woman...

 One of my all time favorite poems about women and what they should mean to a man.  - Big Ben  Without the Immortal Love of a Woman...  Every man's eye is devastatingly empty;...
Posted by Big Ben - Austin VIP Promotions on Fri, 14 Dec 2007 03:05:00 PST

My deep promise to the future Mrs. Big Ben...

My deep promise to you, future Mrs. Big Ben wherever your angelic ass is...maybe your one of my Myspace friends already or soon will be! "I will love you for your MIND, not your BODY; but I will ...
Posted by Big Ben - Austin VIP Promotions on Wed, 12 Dec 2007 11:18:00 PST

How to get into hot & trendy nightclubs anywhere

"How to get into hot & trendy nightclubs anywhere!" Some of you know Big Ben (that's me) has lived all over the country, in such places as Las Vegas, Phoenix, San Diego, Minneapolis, Nashville, an...
Posted by Big Ben - Austin VIP Promotions on Mon, 10 Dec 2007 12:25:00 PST

The Most Dangerous Romantic Movie Myths...

Most Dangerous Romantic Movie Myths - Author Unknown     I have for a LONG time believed this to be true... I don't want to be in love.....I want to be in love in a movie! My friend Miche...
Posted by Big Ben - Austin VIP Promotions on Wed, 05 Dec 2007 02:09:00 PST

Are Certain Types of People Destined To Date Each Other?

Great article about genetics, biology, and neurology and how they relate strongly to the type of person you date or fall for. (I'm a extreme director  tyep for sure! ) - Big Ben Are Certain Types...
Posted by Big Ben - Austin VIP Promotions on Fri, 23 Nov 2007 04:24:00 PST

What is True PASSION...

I have always loved this poem. - Big Ben PASSION... Passion is a feelingIt's not a word for sex&It's the anticipationOf what will happen next&It's looking deep insideThe eyes of my beholder&It's your ...
Posted by Big Ben - Austin VIP Promotions on Tue, 20 Nov 2007 11:11:00 PST