I'd like to meet:
This is for the people out there who remain confused about any boy, girl, man, woman and/or love as it pertains to relationships. The bottom line is that girls and boys are just flat out weird. It seems like they don’t know what they want. They all tend to say the same thing too: "all guys/girls are the same" When the fact of the matter is they don’t want a good guy/girl. No wonder they always end up getting hurt and cheated on, they go for the bad ones and when a good one finally comes along, they are too blinded from what has happened to them in the past to even notice. They also like to go for the ones that they know won’t last thinking they’ll be there in the end when they know darn well they won’t. It makes no sense, instead of actually being with a good one that would treat them right, they'd rather be willing to give their life up for some lying, cheating, up to no good player. I feel bad for boys and girls for what they put each other through, but then again it's their fault for falling for it. It's like playing with fire; you know you're going to get hurt. Now there are a few good men and women out there, but there’s a big difference between a boy and a man, a girl and a woman. Whether you’re a boy, girl, man or woman, it’s not determined by how old you are or how big you are. It’s determined by actions. Don’t get it twisted. Anyone can say anything they want, but actions speak louder than words. One thing to keep in mind is to think to yourself; “show me†not “tell meâ€. Because a boy or girl can tell you what you want to hear, but it takes a man or woman to show you what you want to see. Boys and girls: liars, cheaters, play games, don’t think about the future, looking for Mr. or Ms. “right now†instead of looking for Mr. or Ms. "rightâ€. Won’t call you unless you call them first type of thing or vise versa. Little things like that which tell you the difference between a boy and a man, girl and a woman. I don’t know how one can settle or stay with someone for the purpose of not being lonely instead of having faith that someone will come along who will truly make them happy. Life is about chasing after the things you truly care about. Even if they don’t happen, I would rather have nothing then to settle for something I didn’t want. There are no impossible dreams, just our limited perception of what is possible. No boy or girl is innocent and no matter what, boys will be boys and girls will be girls. They know exactly what they’re doing too. Have you ever heard that saying: “girls just wanna have funâ€? Well it’s the truth and it applies to both boys & girls. They want to have their fun and when they’re done with that, they move on to their next target. Maybe I’m making all of this a big deal, but it’s how I feel and I’m sick and tired of hearing males & females in general talk about it. I realize why I had been single for so long. I wasn’t looking for a girl, I was looking for a woman whom by the way I found. By woman I mean one that doesn’t fit the description of a girl. One who won’t waste my time with lies and promises they can't keep. I never hollered or spit game, that’s just not my style. I’ve never play games, I keep it real 24/7. I’m definitely not the typical guy so I was definitely not looking for the typical female, you feel me? I’m a grown man and I don’t have time for games. I was single by choice until I found my soulmate. As for Myspace, I’m pretty much on here when I'm bored, and to keep in touch with friends from the present and past. So ladies and gentleman who actually took the time out of your life to read this, I didn't mean to write an essay, I just thought I had to let out what was on my mind. The conclusion is: feelings aren’t supposed to be logical, but don’t ever catch feelings for the one you don’t know. If you’re looking for a boy or girl to have a relationship with then have fun, but remember it’s not going to last you and will get hurt. Mental pain hurts so much more than physical pain. No matter how good it feels in the beginning, it feels ten times worse in the end. To the ones looking for a man or a woman to have a relationship with, don't try to rush fate. The best things come to those who wait. You learn something new everyday and anything can happen at any time. I think the reason why people hold onto memories so tight, for so long, is because memories are the only things that don't change, while everything else around them does. Memories are like stones: time and distance erode them like acid. Fake...it's the latest trend around, and everyone seems to be in style. I'm so tired of non-sense and fakeness, can't people just be real to each other? It's not that hard. Friends can walk in and out of your life, but real friends leave footprints in your heart. There comes a point in your life when you realize who really matters, who never did, and who always will. Finding a true friend is like finding a raisin in your cereal, you just have to sort it out from the flakes. Don't take life for granted, because tomorrow isn't promised to any of us. Live, laugh, love and enjoy life. Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery and today is a gift, that's why we call it the present. This came straight from the heart.
Shaghayegh Aishwarya
Rai
Music:
I like a variety of everything, including:
Old School, 80's, Freestyle, Electric Funk, Hip Hop, Rock, Reggae, Trance, Persian, Italian, Arabic,
R & B, Country, Oldies, and Reggaeton. The only true radio station I listen to in San Diego is Magic 92.5. Other than that if it's on the radio, it's most likely not in my car. Here's some of the favorites:
2Pac (RIP), Twista, Bone Thugs-N-Harmony, Immortal Technique, Andre Nickatina, Tech N9ne, Tha Alkaholiks, Living Legends, Zion I, Brotha Lynch Hung, X-Raided, Hollow Tip, RBL Posse, Mr. Lil One, Mr. Sancho, Lil Rob, Mr. Shadow, Mr. Capone E, Woodie, Westside Connection, Wu-Tang Clan, Too $hort, E-40, Celly Cel, DMX, DPG, Gangstarr, Three Six Mafia, Project Pat, Chingo Bling, 99 Posse, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Nirvana (RIP), Green Day, 311, The Offspring, Blink-182, Yellowcard, Sum 41, Incubus, Acceptance, Lenny Kravitz, Hoobastank, Linkin Park, Thrice, Aerosmith, No Doubt, Dashboard Confessional, Sugarcult, New Found Glory, Smashing Pumpkins, System of a Down, Bad Religion, Sublime (RIP), Bob Marley (RIP), Eek-A-Mouse, Barrington Levy, Stevie B, Cover Girls, Newcleus, Lisa Lisa & Cult Jam, World Class Wrecking Crew, Whodini, Buffy, Will to Power, The Freestylers, Midnight Star, Mary Jane Girls, Afrika Bambaataa, Lighter Shade of Brown, Zapp & Roger, The Whispers, Rockell, Nu Shooz, Cynthia, Depeche Mode, Tears For Fears, Martika, Michael Jackson, New Edition, Jade, Soul For Real, Marry Wells, Keith Sweat, 112, Ginuwine, Mars & Mystre, DJ Tiesto, ATB, Paul Oakenfold, DJ Mangoo, Black Cats, Mandolini Napoletani, Siavash, Arash, Shahram K, Amr Diab, John Denver, James Taylor, Shania Twain, Trace Adkins, Tim McGraw, Larry Gatlin, Keith Urban, Korki Buchek
Movies:
(Comedy, Horror)
The Godfather, Scarface, Casino, Ali G Indahouse,
A Night at the Roxbury,
The Hills Have Eyes,
Dumb & Dumber, American Pie, American Pie 2, American Wedding, Office Space, Borat, Trojan War, Scary Movie, Scary Movie 2, American History X, Boyz N the Hood, Menace II Society, American Me, Blood in Blood Out, Dangerous Minds, Loose Change 2nd Edition, The Substitute, High School High, 187, Friday, Kids, Beat Street, Breakin', Breakin' 2, The Ring, Training Day, The Hot Chick, Harold & Kumar Go to White Castle, Rat Race, Coming to America, The Breakfast Club, Cheech and Chong, Waiting...
Television:
ESPN, The Sopranos, Ali G, In Living Color, Martin, Dave Chapelle, That 70's Show, Fresh Prince, WWE Wrestling (Since 1988)
Books:
The Holy Qu'ran,
The Biggest Secret,
Behold a Pale Horse
Heroes:
God, family,
and my true friends.
Shahene's Details
Here for:
Networking, Friends
Orientation:
Straight
Hometown:
San Diego, Cali
2nd Home:
South Carolina
Body Type:
6' 1"
Ethnicity:
Persian / Italian
Religion:
Muslim
Zodiac Sign:
Virgo
Smoke / Drink:
Hookah / Milk
Children:
Someday
Occupation:
Real Estate
