i am jessika. i have a boyfriend, jim, who i love and adore more than anything. i can't picture my life without him. he can always make me smile and is probably the only person who truly understands me. i have two best friends, carla and nikki. i love them both to death. i work with disabled people and i absolutely love my job. i live with three other people and between the four of us we have a small zoo: four cats, a dog, two birds, three rats, a hamster, and a fishtank. i couldn't live without my animals. i have a very complex personality. i don't tend to open up to people very easily and have been told that i am quite unapproachable . i am very optimistic and will usually find a bright side of everything. i hate small changes and am much more accepting of large changes. i can't stand it when people spell words incorrectly or have poor grammar skills. i love the beach (even though i don't go very often), chocolate ice cream, sleeping late, and new socks (weird, i know). i'm terrified of being struck by lightening, lonliness, the dark, and bugs.