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About Me


 A SISTA'S POEM AND A BROTHER'S RESPONSEDo you qualify to be the man I need you to be? Will you be able to recognize the things you need to see? Will you be able to understand, that I..m a good woman and in my life I need a good man? Do you qualify?Do you qualify to fertilize my unproduced seeds? Can you fulfill, as I can, all of our needs? Can you put me in my place if you see I am slippin? Can you talk to me, wholeheartedly, not constantly trippin?? Do you qualify?Do you qualify to be called all mine? Can you leave the other women and temptations behind? Can you come to me with your problems and not wait until it's too late? Can you stand up and admit if you made a mistake? Do you qualify?Do you qualify to be the honest ebony man I would want you to be? Would you be able to look me in my eyes and admit your feelings to me? Could you take me in your arms and make love to me all night long? Can you be sensitive and still be strong? Do you qualify? Do you qualify to be my friend as well as my lover? Can you put our love before any other? Can you cherish me as if I were Diamonds & Gold? Can you make me feel like I amm the last woman you'll ever hold? Do you qualify? Do you qualify to be called a good man? If I have doubts can you reassure me and understand? Can your love intoxicate me as if I were High? To be in my life, I need to know, DO YOU QUALIFY?
THE BROTHER'S RESPONSE: You ask, do I qualify. Can I fulfill your needs and become the man you need me to be? My sister, are you prepared for what you've asked for? Can you handle the responsibility?Can you accept that, by GOD, I am the chosen one, the authority, the comforter, and the head? Will you submit and willingly follow my path? Or will you fight with me instead? If I am your King, will you treat me as such? Will I get the best of your beauty and poise? Or will I be subjected to an appearance neglected, and checked with some serious noise? When I talk, will you listen? I mean whole heartedly and feel me? Or will you rush me just to make your point too? Can I be the man at all times? Even when it hurts? Or is it just when it's convenient for you?Can you love me forme, and not who you wish I could be? Will you see the strong Black Man within? Or will you always remind me of the all the past brothers behind me and make me pay for their sins? If I don't send you flowers the day your co-worker received some, will you know that I love you still? Or will my good name be uttered along with those other doggish brothers? Will you question if my commitment is real?Will you be patient and teach me to understand you, and allow my knowledge of your needs to grow? Or will you shut me out when I ask, Baby what's wrong? Or will you respond with, "Well a REAL man would know!" When we first met, what was it that caught your eye? Was it my mind, my heart, my personality? Or was it my suit, or my job, or do you love what I drive, instead of what's driving me?Yes I can, and I will, make love to you from midnight to the dawning of the sun But, if I tell you I'm tired, will you trust I'm sincere or believe that there must be another one? My sister, I love you and my heart can be yours. No woman could lead me astray. But like you, I have needs, so I beg of you, please, in this love thang meet me half way. In life's tough times I'll hold you, inthe rough times I'll mold you; your simplest wish will be my command. My life is yours if need be. Yes you can fully bleed me, and when hell comes, in your place, I'll stand.A good relationship is a powerful institution that must be built on a foundation of two. So to answer your question, YES sister, I do qualify.Now, more importantly.....! Do you?

My Interests

Football Golf Traveling Dog Sports (for my dog)

Phi Beta Sigma Honor Tribute (1914)

I'd like to meet:

All family, high school and collegiate alumni, Frat, Zeta's, and other Greeks for networking and reuniting. I am not using this site for dating!

Music:

Anything that sounds good

Movies:

Anything that is good

Television:


WHO IS TERRY? MYSTERY SOLVED
Name Terry Grant
Birthday September 24
Age 31
Height 5'7"
Weight 180
Born Georgia
Current Location California
Education Level Advanced Degree
IMMEDIATE FAMILY
Brothers 3
Sisters 2
Oldest, Youngest, Middle Oldest
Mother Geraldine
Father Fred
Grandmother Arlene (GOD Bless Her)
Cousins too many
FEW FAVORITES
Color Black
Food Seafood
Song Lashun Pace Rhodes "I know I've been changed"
Holiday Thanksgiving. Love that fried turkey
TV Show Martin
Movie(s) Troy, Gladiator, and 300
Past Time Football and Travelling
MISC
Smoke No
Drink On occasion
Drugs Never
Dance I got dance fever
Sing Helllll No
Been in a fight in my younger days
Swear no
PERSONAL ITEMS
Live alone Yep
Children None
Kissed someone Of course
Been called a tease Yeah
Been on a blind date Yeah
Had a crush Yeah
Been in love yeah
Been dumped I think so. I know when its coming though
Had heart broken yeah
Broken someones heart Yeah
In a relationship now No
Want to get married That door is open
Best Physical feature my smile
Best Character Feature generally nice
Biggest Pet Peeve being late
Underwear Preference boxers
Shy or outgoing shy
Player or Faithful too old to be a player anymore. Faithful
Nice or mean Nice
SEXUAL
Do you kiss with eyes open or closed both
Tongue or no tongue both
Older or younger hmmm depends
Top or bottom top
Lights on or off on
Affectionate extremely
Cuddler love it
Trimmed or shaved shaved
Ever had bad sex yep
Had sex with someone and regretted it hell yeah
Ever hasd a 3sum, 4sum, or more yep to all
Does Sex = Love no
Conservative or Freaky hmmm depends
Sex Outdoors of course
Faked Orgasm yep
Sexually Adventurous definetely
First Date Sex i believe in it
Paid for sex directly and indirectly
Sex at work oh yeah
Cheated yeah
Number of sex partners too many to remember
Enjoy sex alot with a special individual i do
Satisfied with sex life yeah
First time 12yrs old
Unexpected sex yeah
Possible to fall in love without having sex yeah
Can sex make the difference between falling in love or not no
Can you have emotional less sex yes
Do you believe in celibacy(no sex before marriage) yeah but not for me
Ever paid for sex directly and indirectly
Ever had any STD's no
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Books:

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Heroes:

My 4th grade teacher Ms. Thomas. She taught me a lot of little things that has made me a bigger man. I still think of her to this day.

My Blog

My Resume

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