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About Me

"True happiness will never permit you to settle for a lesser form of happiness. - Suze Orman"

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...how to fall in love without losing herself...what she would and wouldn't do for love or more...when to try harder...and when to walk away...
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A GOOD WOMAN
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A good woman is proud of herself. She respects herself and others. She is aware of who she is. She neither seeks definition from the person she is with, nor does she expect them to read her mind. She is quite capable of articulating her needs. A good woman is hopeful. She is strong enough to make all her dreams come true. She knows love, therefore she gives love. She recognizes that her love has great value and must be reciprocated. If her love is taken for granted, it soon disappears. A good woman has a dash of inspiration and a dabble of endurance. She knows that she will, at times, have to inspire others to reach the potential God gave them. A good woman knows her past, understands her present and moves toward the future. A good woman knows God. She knows that with God the world is her playground, but without God she will just be played with. A good woman does not live in fear of the future because of her past. Instead, she understands that her life experiences are merely lessons, meant to bring her closer to self-knowledge and unconditional self-love. God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; the courage to change the things I can; and the wisdom to know the difference
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"Phenomenal Woman" Maya Angelou
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Pretty women wonder where my secret lies. I'm not cute or built to suit a fashion model's size But when I start to tell them, They think I'm telling lies. I say, It's in the reach of my arms The span of my hips, The stride of my step, The curl of my lips. I'm a woman Phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, That's me. I walk into a room Just as cool as you please, And to a man, The fellows stand or Fall down on their knees. Then they swarm around me, A hive of honey bees. I say, It's the fire in my eyes, And the flash of my teeth, The swing in my waist, And the joy in my feet. I'm a woman Phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, That's me. . Men themselves have wondered What they see in me. They try so much But they can't touch My inner mystery. When I try to show them They say they still can't see. I say, It's in the arch of my back, The sun of my smile, The ride of my breasts, The grace of my style. I'm a woman Phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, That's me. . Now you understand Just why my head's not bowed. I don't shout or jump about Or have to talk real loud. When you see me passing It ought to make you proud. I say, It's in the click of my heels, The bend of my hair, the palm of my hand, The need of my care, 'Cause I'm a woman Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman, That's me.
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I'd like to meet:

SOMEONE WORTHY..."He just has to be worthy" In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question "What kind o f man are you looking for?" She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye and asking "Do you really want to know?" Reluctantly, he said, "Yes." She began to expound... As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to ask a man what he can do for me that I can't do for myself. I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man...or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask, "What can you bring to the table?" The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought and stated, "I am not referring to money. I need something more." I need a man who is striving for perfection in every aspect of life." He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her to explain. She said, "I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man." I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked... believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for perfection financially because I don't need a financial burden. I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded. I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive...he just has to be worthy. God made woman to be a helpmate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself. When she finished her spill, she looked at him. He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said, "You're asking a lot." She replied, "I'm worth a lot."

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My Blog

May 17, 2008 - WELCOME TO GRADUATION =)

A poem by Dr. Seuss, titled "Oh, the Places You'll Go&"Oh, the Places You'll Go!Congratulations!Today is your day.You're off to Great Places!You're off and away!You have brains in your head.You have f...
Posted by *~* Maye *~* on Thu, 15 May 2008 06:49:00 PST

See the bright future

What has happened before has brought you to where you are. Yet the past has no control over where you can go from here. Your past history does not create your future. The choices you make right now a...
Posted by *~* Maye *~* on Thu, 13 Dec 2007 11:56:00 PST

SAVE THE DATE!!!!

**** MAY 17, 2008 at 12pm **** That's the date of my graduation commencement ceremony....my advisor informed us of the date and our graduation schedule last night...Can't believe I'm that close to fin...
Posted by *~* Maye *~* on Thu, 11 Oct 2007 10:31:00 PST

Real treasure to be found

If you're always chasing happiness, it will never be able to find you. Relax, simply give happiness a place to live in you, and it will be in great abundance. When you put conditions on enjoyment, it...
Posted by *~* Maye *~* on Mon, 08 Oct 2007 02:26:00 PST

*~* Be Grateful *~*

A recent convo with someone brought me back to an old quote....Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong peoplebefore meeting the right one so thatwhen we finally meet the right person,we will know how t...
Posted by *~* Maye *~* on Wed, 19 Sep 2007 08:47:00 PST

RELATIONSHIPS. . . (can I get an Amen?)

Here you go Joanne...miss ya chica! Relationships - of all kinds - are like sand held in your hand. Held loosely with an open hand, the sand remains where it is.The minute you close your hand and sque...
Posted by *~* Maye *~* on Thu, 13 Sep 2007 09:14:00 PST

On that inspirational tip once again....

The value of forgiveness Forgiveness can indeed be difficult. Yet in the long run, it is far easier to forgive than to live with resentment or continuing retribution. Through forgiveness, you can mov...
Posted by *~* Maye *~* on Wed, 22 Aug 2007 01:07:00 PST

*** Difficult truths ***

Posting this for no particular reason except for the fact that it's some real ass advice...thanks to all my friends who have always kept it "REAL!"  That's what being a good friend is all about.....
Posted by *~* Maye *~* on Thu, 26 Apr 2007 10:08:00 PST

See With Your Heart

In your heart, you know what is right and what is wrong. You know what will ultimately move you ahead and what will hold you back. Though you may be very good at rationalizing against it, the truth is...
Posted by *~* Maye *~* on Wed, 04 Apr 2007 01:13:00 PST

WOMEN & MONEY By Suze Orman

So yesterday I picked up a new book at Barnes and Noble called Women and Money By Suze Orman. Anyone who knows me knows that I love to read inspirational stuff, especially motivational and self-help l...
Posted by *~* Maye *~* on Mon, 02 Apr 2007 12:22:00 PST