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Kim

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About Me

About me? Hmmm......is any of this really relevant? I'm a former cop. Forget all of the stereotypes. I suppose I wasn't the typical example. The theory is that if you keep at something long enough, you eventually get it right. 25 years should have been long enough, but it felt as if I was swimming upstream most of the time, and I'm not that strong of a swimmer. Usually at odds with the administration over 'procedural' issues (Simon Leis tends to be somewhat of a butthead at times.) Don' t get the wrong idea...I was very good at what I did, mind you, but sometimes I just didn't see the point. I'm also a drummer. Very out of practice at the moment; ask Frampton (except he's too polite to say anything negative..."BLOODY FINE JOB!") Anyway, at one time I did a lot of studio work. I still play, but only for the occasional MERF benefit or oldies show (read washed up has been top 40 rock and roll dinosaurs who don't even have their own band anymore, they hire local musicians at each city; think WGRR oldies fest.) I was a partner in a bar once. It wasn't widely publicised (it also wasn't very pretty); if you don't already know which one, I suppose it makes no difference now. Lost a lot of money...seems the majority partner would rather put the profits up his nose than promote the club or make MUCH needed improvements. Remember the 70's? Remember disco? I was a dance instructor for a brief period of insane un/underemployment. I know, disco sucked, but it helped pay the bills. Went to hair school for a while - stayed there just long enough to learn how not to totally fuck up a haircut. All the other stuff you have to learn in order to get a license is a bunch of crap! I'm still not sure what I want to do if and when I ever grow up. If anybody has a suggestion, feel free to let me know; I'll try almost anything twice!

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

People who won't lie to me..

My Blog

Closure

Why are you just sitting there?!No, don't cry. (please oh please oh please don't cry.) You know I can't protect myself from that.You keep doing thisYou change my lifeYou don't even ask firstYou make m...
Posted by on Tue, 02 Dec 2008 12:47:00 GMT

Hugs

Hugging is in danger of simply going away.For instance, if you watch television or movies, you will almost never see a full body hug, in preference of the faux hug.The faux hug is one in which only th...
Posted by on Wed, 12 Nov 2008 14:21:00 GMT

Who really knows?

So many guys share knowledge with each other about what women want, as though we know. Truth is, we don't know anything about women, let alone ourselves. Many men, of course, will rally against that f...
Posted by on Mon, 10 Nov 2008 19:41:00 GMT

On having trophies (revisited)

This is an old blog. I posted it several years ago to make a point to one person.  I'm reposting it in hopes it will help people to realize that friends are important, no matter how they appear.&...
Posted by on Thu, 16 Oct 2008 13:16:00 GMT

Back to school

After all these years, it seems that I've been presented with a homework assignment. I think what I have to do is to dissect, analyze, and present my interpretations of the word 'fuck' as applied to v...
Posted by on Tue, 14 Oct 2008 23:51:00 GMT

Perfection???

Thought I knew what perfection was, even though I doubted its existence. There was always a flaw. For an eternity I sought after it, not knowing what I'd do if I ever found it. I had to have it. ...
Posted by on Mon, 13 Oct 2008 15:52:00 GMT

This ones for you

So many feelingsSo much to say...Where to begin?How to begin?And when all is said and done, will it have made a difference?Have patience, please, for this may take some time.Not now, but soon.I p...
Posted by on Mon, 13 Oct 2008 15:34:00 GMT

NO DRAMA NO DRAMA NO DRAMA

Things I've learned: 1. Being large in stature does not preclude one from being small of mind.2. Those self-important ones who attach excessive value to their precious time often need to be reminded t...
Posted by on Mon, 25 Aug 2008 15:29:00 GMT

I just want you to be my friend

I can tell you what this has meant in my personal experience.  I have been through the "I just want to be friends" thing so many times, I just don't bother anymore.  It's a canned, hated lin...
Posted by on Sun, 22 Jun 2008 12:31:00 GMT

Thinking and writing...

It's something you can always count on.  That I've been thinking and writing.  Thinking and writing about you.  When I get it into my head that I want to be around a specific perso...
Posted by on Sun, 01 Jun 2008 00:29:00 GMT