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tony

I am here for Dating and Friends

About Me

i suffer from pessimistic hope. at least hope is a part of it. i can't succinctly describe myself here, but i can say that i am complicated beyond belief. i'll be the first to tell you that. my mind and opinions change constantly. sometimes i can't keep up with myself, but i'm trying to catch up gradually. my friends are important to me. i like having a strong group of people around me. i really don't think anyone has better friends than me, but that's also a matter of opinion -- my opinion. i don't pretend to be smarter than i am, but i'm not stupid. i always feel like i could know more. i think we all could. i'm currently working on bettering myself. what's new? i'm in no way perfect, but i want to be the best tony i can be. i want to challenge myself to live the best life i can. knowledge is freedom. question everything. i also love cheese.

My Interests

cooking and entertaining. playing spades. art. theatre.music. hanging out. working. my nieces and nephew. moving forward. flirting.

I'd like to meet:

old friends at a bar in paris. new friends. smarties. not so smarties. stephen colbert. oprah. the golden girls. mandela. conspiracy theorists. people who don't judge others (all the time). FICA. whitney houston. ellen degeneres. erykah badu. Jaques Chirac. my dad.

Music:

ALL TYPES. whitney houston. erykah badu. john mayer. pink. james brown. aretha franklin. beyonce. luther vandross. helen baylor. chemical brothers. tupac. outkast. eminem. michael jackson. you get the idea...

Movies:

boys of baraka, big business, troop beverly hills, house of yes, american psycho, ETERNAL SUNSHINE OF THE SPOTLESS MIND, serial mom, american history x, cidar house rules, for love and basketball (do i hear chuckles?), tsotsi, the bodyguard, finding nemo, and on and on and on and on...

Television:

FREAKS AND GEEKS; food network; chappelle's show; Amazing Race; Golden Girls; the Office; Sex and the City (i'll admit it); King of Queens; Desperate Housewives; GREY's A-mother fuckin NATOMY; ellen degeneres show (when i can catch it), (ab)solutely (fab)ulous, darling, futurama (so brilliant), i like tv a lot. i know people have problems with tv, but it's because they weren't raised on it like me. if you know how to watch a show and completely understand how you're being manipulated time and time again, then tv ain't so bad. stop lecturing me. stop. oh, i also love a lot of the MTV shows. that's what's up. this is the real world, biyotch.

Books:

white teeth, harry potter series, i know why the caged bird sings, lord of the flies, ecstasy club, me talk pretty one day, any david sedaris... the autobiography of vanna white, proof, wit, davinci code, the bluest eye, sula, their eyes were watching god, motherless brooklyn, blindness, etc.

Heroes:

.. width="425" height="350" ..whitney houston singing black eyed peas

My Blog

myspace is pissing me off!

fuckin’ quit it with the stripper friend requests! i hate that shit so much. every day i go to my friend requests folder and there are at least five girls dressed like hoochies (if dressed at al...
Posted by tony on Tue, 18 Mar 2008 07:58:00 PST

ramblings

he came across fly...in his way. i came across fresh in mine. we mingled with the possibility of attraction, but quickly retreated. too many secrets and not enough trust kept us separated...alone. exa...
Posted by tony on Sun, 09 Mar 2008 09:07:00 PST

new AMERYKAH!

i've always been a fan of erykah badu. that goes without saying if you know me. her voice, words, and sensual grace make me feel inspired and heard. i cannot express enough how absolutely wonderful m...
Posted by tony on Sun, 02 Mar 2008 01:38:00 PST

and on and on...

so i'm  back in the state of mass. it's great to be back to a sense of normalcy. i feel so refreshed and alive with the sound of music. i feel great, and i look great. who could ask for anything ...
Posted by tony on Sat, 09 Feb 2008 08:39:00 PST

am i a fool?

i don't think i am, but sometimes i get caught in the middle of my thoughts and my actions. must do better! monday is mundane, and i am rejected...again -  THANK GOD!!!  ...
Posted by tony on Tue, 11 Apr 2006 06:11:00 PST

note to self

stop going online to chat with idiots.
Posted by tony on Fri, 07 Apr 2006 11:41:00 PST