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I am a fun loving kinda guy that just moved back to New Mexico from San Francisco Bay! Why you ask? Well I will tell you I came home for family reasons. There is one thing you will learn about me as you get to know me and that is my family and friends come first. I had a good paying job believe me when I say that but I was willing to give it up for the family. So if you were to win my heart and my Love you will be my family. There is nothing I won't do for them. Well with that being said you have gotten a feel for who I am in a sense. I am a die hard romantic as well. I know I know you have heard it all before but I am one of the few that mean it. I like to walk in the rain holding hands with the man of my dreams. I also love to cater to him. So when my girls Destiny's Child song " Cater to You" came out it was as if they wrote that as my anthem. I am also the type of man that will take off your shoes and massage your feet after a long hard day's work. I will add here that please do not take this as a sign of weakness. For I am not also do not take my kindness and generosity as a sign of weakness as well. I am the type of man that takes people at face value and that is how I believe it should be. Once you start to show your true you and that is something that is not liked I will end all ties as much as it might hurt, it is something that needs to be done. I will state here in closing that I might not have a lot of friends weather they be gay or str8 but what I do have is quality. Quality and substance over rules quantity and the like. I also love to read and music is my passion I will listen to just about anything and I try not to limit myself to on certain genre. But as far as books go I believe in supporting my Brothers who have the gift of the written word. I also love to watch the IFC channel for I believe that those movies are made from the heart and they tend to have some kind of substance.
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Which ArchAngel are you most like?
Rafael. You're most like the ArchAngel of Healing. You want people to shape up, and you nag. But you mean well, and you're well loved despite it. Or because of it. You bring the donuts even as you tell people to eat more veggies.
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You Are a Newborn Soul
You are tolerant, accepting, and willing to give anyone a chance.
On the flip side, you're easy to read and easily influenced by others.
You have a fresh perspective on life, and you can be very creative.
Noconformist and nontraditional, you've never met anyone who's like you.
Inventive and artistic, you like to be a trendsetter.
You have an upbeat spirit and you like almost everything.
You make friends easily and often have long standing friendships.
Implusive and trusting, you fall in love a little too easily.
Souls you are most compatible with: Bright Star Soul and Dreaming Soul What Kind of Soul Are You?

My Egyptian Name is Babafemi (loved by his father).
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Created with Rum and Monkey 's Name Generator Generator . Thoth
Enthusiastic, enterprising, courageous, likes to take risks.
Colors: male: rose , female: white
Compatible Signs: Bastet, Isis
Dates: Apr 1 -Apr 19, Nov 8 - Nov 17
Role: God of wisdom, scribes, and writing
Appearance: An ibis-headed man, or a baboon. Often seen with the moon on his head in either of these forms.
Sacred animals: ibis, baboon
What is Your Egyptian Zodiac Sign?
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You are one of the few out there whose wings are truly ANGELIC. Selfless, powerful, and divine, you are one blessed with a certain cosmic grace. You are unequalled in peacefulness, love, and beauty. As a Being of Light your wings are massive and a soft white or silver. Countless feathers grace them and radiate the light within you for all the world to see. You are a defender, protector, and caretaker. Comforter of the weak and forgiver of the wrong, chances are you are taken advantage of once in awhile, maybe quite often. But your innocence and wisdom sees the good in everyone and so this mistreatment does not make you colder. Merciful to the extreme, you will try to help misguided souls find themselves and peace. However not all Angelics allow themselves to be gotten the better of - the Seraphim for example will be driven to fighting for the sake of Justice and protection of those less powerful. Congratulations - and don't ever change - the world needs more people like you.Image Copyright Sheila Wolk (prints available through treefreegreetings.com) - words added by myself.
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Which Queer As Folk Character Are You?
You are Ted.
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You are so full of energy, you constantly attract hotties, and you are always the dominant one in the sack. It is very easy for you approach people because you have so much confidence and you are very forward about your feelings. You are very likely to have lots of sexual partners, (sometimes all at once), and be the most sexually experienced of any of your friends. Sex matches: Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius Take this quiz at QuizUniverse.com


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My Interests

Well I have various intrests but mainly I love music and the ar of the written word. I am also into photography and it is something that helps me relax and yes helps me make money!

I'd like to meet:

Well let me start off by saying that there are a few people that I would love to meet most of them are dead and a couple are living. So first and foremost I would want to meet THE ONE AND ONLY CHOLO FAG RAPPER DEADLEE! In a word DAYUMN! The next person would have to be the actor Eric Balfour he is hella sexy if you do not know who he is look at his picture above also DAYUMN! I also would love to meet David Blaine he is an awesome magician and he intrigues me with his magic. I would also love to meet the following people that have made an inpact on my life and who has made me who I am with their way of living. Dr.Martin Luther King Jr. for what he stood for and what he died for. I would like to think that He would be proud as to how far we have come. Anne Frank with all she went through and how she suffered still found it in her heart and I would say her soul that inspite of it all there is goodness in man! Mother Teresa for her gentle way and showed love to all with out condition and lived a life of humility! So I try to take a bit of these people and meld it in my everyday way of life. For I want to be a better man, who has the capacity to grow and be some one that my parents would be proud of. So with

Music:

WOW my passion and my life... I will just list a few of the artist that I read. I have a wide genre of music which varies so I will list a few as to not bore you but if you like as me about them and I will tell you. First would have to be DEADLEE,Luther Vandross,Patti Labelle,Mary J.Bliege,Usher,JayZ,Faith Evans,Faith Hill,Beyonce',Nelly,LoneStar,Sting,U2,Green Day, Bach, and Various other artists.

Movies:

Movies are the same for me they help me escape when I want to get away in my own world. I will list a few here as well but my life time favorites are "Empire in the Sun" I have seen this movie a thousand and one times and never tire and I cry each time. My other own is "Pay it forward" Other tear jerker. Now on to my list...Imitation of life,The Color Purple,The Fifth Element,The Others, Whale Rider, Once were Warriors, Rabbit Proof Fences, The Lord of the rings Triology Harry Potter all of them thus far,House of flying daggers these are only a few.

Television:

Well I like to watch the boob tube and these are my favorites... Grey's Anatomy,CSI Las Vegas,Top Chef, Project Runway,The food channel,Law & Order all 3 of them, Desperate Housewives,Brothers & Sisters, Noah's Arc to list a few.

Books:

Books well here are a few of my authors, Anne Rice, E.Lynn Harris,Dr. Maya Angelou,Christopher Rice, Stephen King,Langeston Hughes,Clive Barker are a few that come to mind at this time.

Heroes:

Heroes well it would have to be my parents who taught me right from wrong and to Love Unconditionally and to take people at face value and always try to be a man of my word. My Siblings that have always been there for me when I least expected them and Loved me regardless. And my Gay Brothers and Sisters who are at war and that are defending this country that would treat them and us as second class citizens. They proudly serve under the burka of "Don't Ask Don't Tell" And to all the Matthew Shepards, Gwen Arrujos that were killed for being gay and transgendered. And all the GLBT that have faught for the few rights that I have now as a gay man and for those straight people that stand united with us so we may no longer be treated as less than human. So to all my HEROES I BOW DOWN TO YOU AND THANK YOU FOR ALL YOU HAVE DONE FOR ME IN ONE WAY OR ANOTHER!!!!

My Blog

You had me at Hello!

You had me at Hello When you first requested to be my friend I saw your picture and said WOW! When you then sent me a comment I said WOW! When  you sent me a message I said WOW! Now that we tal...
Posted by Friends n Lovers! on Tue, 28 Nov 2006 09:20:00 PST

Poem

Lie I once got a message that simply said LIE. I asked myself at that point in time. What is a lie? Well a lie is a simple thing one mans truth! Yes for the person telling that lie is his version of t...
Posted by Friends n Lovers! on Sat, 15 Jul 2006 04:26:00 PST

Poem By Langston Huges

Comment of War Let us kill of youth for the sake of truth. We who are old know what truth is- Truth is a bundle of vicious lies Tied together and sterlized- A war-makers' bait for unwise youth To kill...
Posted by Friends n Lovers! on Fri, 02 Jun 2006 01:00:00 PST

A poem by my brother Art

Getting Old The simplicity of growing old. You know it's there and taking hold, But you refuse to let show or even act like you really want to know, But then one day you look and see the Snow that's g...
Posted by Friends n Lovers! on Sat, 20 May 2006 03:41:00 PST

In the still of the night!

In the Still of the night! As I sit here all by myself in the still of the night I keep myself busy and amused by the clicking of the keys and the occasional phone ring. I sit here at work in utter bo...
Posted by Friends n Lovers! on Sat, 06 May 2006 04:10:00 PST

WMD~ IRAN AND NUCLEAR WEAPONS?

WMD? Is it not funny that we went to war over WMD! HMM.... Now Iran and Nuclear weapons?..... U ask whats my point? well I will tell you. DO we not have WMD ourselves? I think we do any weapon we use ...
Posted by Friends n Lovers! on Thu, 13 Apr 2006 08:25:00 PST

Turning 42

As I sit here on my lap top I am pondering life! See as the day progresses and the hours sway past me it brings me closer yet to another birthday! Yes in deed at the stroke of mid-night I will turn...
Posted by Friends n Lovers! on Mon, 03 Apr 2006 04:32:00 PST

You are Loved!

If I died today would you mourn me? If I lived today would you be happy? If I cried today would you comfort me? If I laffed today would you laff with me? If I said I loved you would say it back? I jus...
Posted by Friends n Lovers! on Sat, 12 Nov 2005 10:03:00 PST

Mourn a bit of history!

As I sit here and blog I mourn a passing of American History! Rosa Parks. Who did so much for the changing of the way we live in this world today! For it takes one person to make a change in history. ...
Posted by Friends n Lovers! on Mon, 31 Oct 2005 10:46:00 PST

Dead Lee is a firme Thug Man 4 Life....

Dead Lee I am sitting here in this space known as da WWW. And what should my wondering eyes should see but a fine azz Gay rapper known azz.... Dead Lee He be sexy! He be fine! He be all that...
Posted by Friends n Lovers! on Sat, 22 Oct 2005 12:25:00 PST