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Patty♥Cakes

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About Me

My daughter Vanessa is the world to me. She is my reason for living and the shining light of my life. I have a lot of things to be thankful for. I survived cancer and many scary surgeries and I am a better person for it. I always try to keep a good attitude about life because I know how fast things can change and how bad they can be. Besides spending time with my family I have a lot of hobbies and try to keep busy. I enjoy crafts and making things. Movies are also one of my favorite past times..I like just about any kind of movie. I'm single now and I have to admit it has been nice and peaceful, not worrying about someone elses drama has been nice. I am willing to meet new people, it would be nice if the right person came along, but making new friends is always fun. I am a very easy going and trusting person, but it doesnt mean I'm guilable. Most of you know about my vocal cord problems, but if you don't here is a quick update. My vocal cords were paralized from cancer 11yrs ago and until then I had NO idea how important your vocal cords really are, they do much more than give you your voice, they hold up your airway so you can breathe. Mine were paralized in a place that has made it hard for me to breathe for a long time. This summer they got worse for no reason and was told by numerous doctors the only choice left was a permant trachotomy (a really bad thing). I searched everywhere for a doctor, I went to Nashville, Chicago and was about to go to Budapest in Hungery until I rememember one of my old doctors at Henry Ford. I finally found a doc with enough guts to do the surgery on my cords without giving me a trach. He is a great doc and is in my prayers always. My vocal cords are still healing and have alot of swelling, my voice has gotten even more quiet, its just a whisper but might improve over time. I would rather have a good airway without a trach and bad voice than a good voice with a trach. I want to thank everyone for their thoughts and prayers, it meant alot!

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My Interests

Gardening,growing things
WWII Nazi Germany history
Civil War history and all sorts of military history

I'd like to meet:

The doctor in Budapest that gave me hope when I felt hopeless. Bear Gyrlls.

Music:

N.I.N
Nirvana
Manson
Pantera
and many more

Movies:

Casablanca
A Street Car Named Desire
American History X,
The Grey Zone
Closer
300
The Lion King
any war documentry or movies.

Television:

The Shield,
Man vs Wild
Nip/Tuck
Damages
anything on The History Channel
Fox News
Rescue Me
E.R
and anything to do with World War II and Nazi Germany history

Books:

Auschwitz
a doctors eyewitness account
Ann Coulter "How to talk to a Liberal (if you must)
"Look Away" A History of the Confederate States of America
"Mein Kampf"-Adolf Hitler

Heroes:

First of all my wonderful Mother and each and everyone one of our Troops