The first thing you must understand
There's No Easy Way to Love a Black Man
You've Got to Figure Him out
Learn What He's about
And Know He's Someone You Can't Live Without
Then Kill Him with Kindness
Shower Him with Sweetness
But Never Let Him Mistake Your Kindness for Weakness
It's Hard for Him to Give Himself to You
So Be Appreciative of the Little Things He Tries to Do
Let Him Know He Can Confide in You
And in Return He Won't Have to Hide Things from You
So be Supportive, Be His Friend Not His Foe
And When He Makes a Mistake, Don't Say I Told You So
Be Understanding Not Demanding
Let Him Unwind
He Faces a World of Rain
So Be his Sunshine
Don't Get Too Cozy in the Comfort Zone
You'll Take Him for Granted and End up Alone
Keep Love Exciting and New
Go the Extra Mile
Keep Finding New Ways to Make Him Smile
Remember to Be Sexy Because Without a Doubt
He Wants to Be Proud When He Takes You out
Don't Let Yourself Go Don't Forget about You
Love Yourself and He Will Love You Too
Don't Smother the Man
Let Him Breathe
The Tighter You Hold on
The Faster He Will Leave
And When You Love Him
Love Him All the Way down
Don't Be Afraid to Explore Him Pound for Pound
If You don't Give Him What He Needs to Feel
I Guarantee That Someone Else Will
Be Honest
Be Patient
And Demand Respect
And a Wonderful Black Man Is What You'll Get
Show Him Your Pride
Stand by His Side
Let God Be Your Guide
And Love Will Abide
Poem written by a good friend called "Hidden Beauty:
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Relationships are hopeless why even try?
The person that’s meant for you comes from the sky.
No matter what I do relationships never work.
But it’s always the devil that try’s to flirt.
He sends different people with the intent to crush.
He blinds all your love and fills it with lust.
People have so many issues there afraid to love, and you feel no connection when they give you a hug.
People in this world have empty souls and there lives slowly dying like a withering rose.
This world will dish you a lot of scars.
Physically and mentally they put behind bars.
Because you trap your feelings inside your heart.
There overflowing inside and tearing you apart.
Life is hard no one said it will was easy.
But women in this world do nothing but tease me.
The issues people have they try to hid it, and there feelings that inside they try to fight it.
Explaining this is hard cause it’s hard to understand.
Some of peoples feelings are trapped like a clam.
Inside of that clam is a beautiful pearl.
And it’s trapped deep inside that beautiful girl.
Because of the pain of life they shell up and close.
Just like a clam that’s hard to unfold.
They won’t open up and share what they feel.
The clam is closed tight and the pearl is concealed.
The shell is strong, rugged, and tough.
But that’s only the outside, it’s only a bluff.
Even though they act all tough and say all that stuff.
It’s not what they feel they just huff and puff.
There life is corrupt and blinded by grief.
Just like that rose with the withering leaf.
They put up a front like it doesn’t bother them.
But deep on the inside it’s slowly rotting them.
And that pearl inside it’s dimming and dull.
And they way to re-polish it, is give God your soul.
Once you give Him your soul He’ll turn it to gold.
And that clam that you have will slowly unfold.
The pearl He’ll shine and make it bright and glim.
Then you should bow down and Thank him cause you’ve been redeemed.
So start to dance raise your voice and sing.
You should really be Thanking Him cause you’ve made God’s team.
Love is like the taste of honey
It flows from one location to another to reach its destination
It's poem is as sweet as the love God gives
It's rainbow is as original as the creation of heaven and earth
It's beauty glows like one thousand oceans in a coal mine
Love is what you have not seen
It's a feeling one gets when someone breaks their heart.
You have not loved unless you have been pressed down, broken, shaken, ran over,...and then after all this..... mended.
Love is what you have not seen, and maybe what you cannot bare.
After all is said and done,....
Love is the greatest feeling of all....
Love is just like the taste of honey.
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A POEM FOR THOUGHT
Lord, Lord
Why did You make me Black?
Why did You make someone
the world wants to hold back?
Black is the color of dirty clothes,
the color of grimy hands and feet.
Black is the color of darkness,
the color of tire beaten streets.
Why did you give me thick lips,
a broad nose and kinky hair?
Why did you make someone
who receives the hatred stare?
Black is the color of the bruised eye
when someone gets hurt.
Black is the color of darkness,
Black is the color of dirt.
How come my bone structures so thick,
my hips and cheeks so high?
How come my eyes are brown
and not the color of daylight sky?
Why do people think Im useless?
How come I feel so used?
Why do some people see my skin
and think I should be abused?
Lord I just dont understand.
What it is about my skin?
Why do some people want to hate me
and not know the person within?
Black is what people are listed
when others want to keep them away.
Black is the color of shadows cast.
Black is the end of the day.
Lord you know my own people mistreat me
and I know this just aint right.
They dont like my hair.
They say Im too dark or too light.
Lord dont you think its time for You
to make a change?
Why dont You re-do creation and
make everyone the same?
GOD ANSWERED:
Why did I make you Black?
Why did I make you Black?
Get off your knees and look around.
Tell me, what do you see?
I didnt make you in the image of darkness,
I made you in likeness of ME!
I made you the color of coal from which
beautiful diamonds are formed.
I made you the color of oil, the black gold that keeps people warm.
I made you from the rich, dark earth that can grow the food you need.
Your colors the same as the black stallion, a majestic animal is he.
I didnt make you in the image of darkness.
I made you in likeness of ME?
All the colors of the heavenly rainbow can be found throughout every nation.
But when all of those colors were blended, you became my greatest creation.
You hair is the texture of lambs wool.
Such a humble little creature is he.
I am the shepherd who watches them.
I am the One who will watch over thee.
You are the color of the midnight sky.
I put the stars glitter in your eyes.
There is a smile hidden behind your pain.
Thats why your cheeks are so high.
You are the color of dark clouds formed,
when I send My strongest weather.
I made your lips full so when you kiss the one
that you love, they will remember.
Your stature is strong, your bone structure thick
to withstand the burdens of time.
The reflection you see in the mirror..
The image that looks back is MINE.