people who can and will do one or more of the following with me: play music, laugh, listen, walk around the neighborhood or in the woods, drink coffee, swim, revel in the beautiful parts of southern/u.s. culture while still acknowledging the racist/sexist/classist/queerphobic/violent institutional forces at work in our communities and in our hearts, play chess, write letters, teach me anything, engage with strangers, talk about grammar, get lost on purpose, do handsprings so i can live vicariously, imitate yourself in your dorkiest moments, and sing sing sing.really, i'm down for whatever. but do it now.