About Me

November 8th!!

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Regular Fridays.
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YO.
Pam. SFSU. Chill.
In it to win it / All or nothing / Go big or go home type o'shit.
Biggest dork ever; Laugh over anything/everything.
Slow to Love, but damn do I love hard.
I've got a moderately foul mouth, but surely you won't judge my character solely on that; And if you do, OH WELL! Keep it movin..
Taking care of my business as I see fit.
Independence is key.
Tease my mind, not my HEART. There's a difference.
Thus, I rep the NAS x FTB, TO THE FULLEST; Bitch, please!
Like Hammer in them pants: "CANT TOUCH THIS." Next!
With all the bullshit I've gone/am going through, I know something's gotta give: There are blessings even in the presence of tribulation.
I honestly believe that i've got a lot to offer the world.
&I await the days that I can proudly bask in my good fortune, and fcukin hard work.
My life, shit let me live it.
Wahhhhhhhhh!!
Lemme spitt.

My Interests

Chillin out to music. Aesthetically pleasing art. Written works. Bold colors. (ANYTHING bold, for that matter.) Beach trips. Partying w/thee Girls. Hanging out w/thee Girls. Clubbin w/thee Girls. Shit, what can I say, I love their company! Laughs over jokes. Laughs over nothing. Events which manage to give me natural highs. (God knows THOSE are amazing.) Nothing more than the simple things in life, because everything else is considered a blessing of luxury.

I'd like to meet:

DIBS.

Simply put: Anyone.
*Worth the time &effort, that is.
I'm looking to better myself, and my company. So to the fools w/the whack ass personas who think they can kick it: StepOff.
Cus I mean.. Who you tryna kid, Kid?

Music:

If BEATknocks, I'm game.

Movies:

HotelRwanda. CRASH. 300. Lucky #Slevin. RENT. Little Princess. The Hurricane. Prison Song. CityOfGod. MalcolmX. Mona Lisa Smile. SmokingAces. Dirty Dancing *both. Save The Last Dance. Harry Potter *ALL. Narnia. The Sweetest Thing. 10 Things I Hate About You. The Professional. Kill Bill (Volumes 1&2). Chicago. Serendipity. Yesterday. Pay It Forward. Green Mile. Good Will Hunting.

Television:

Dead Zone. MadTV. SNL. Mind Control w/Derren Brown. That 70s Show. Chappelles Show. ANTM. Project Runway. Family Guy. Simpsons. American Dad. Robot Chicken. FRESHPRINCE.

I'm more of the Humorous type.

Books:

Roll of Thunder, Hear My Cry. Always Running. Lovely Bones. The Notebook. All Things Uncensored. &If by books you mean anything of the paper composed variety, then that would also include cereal boxes, memo's, random pieces of paper that find their way to me, nutrition facts, &the labels on air fresheners describing how amazingly *Fresh their scent is. God knows I love AirFreshies! I can't stand the stank. x(

Heroes:

My Mom.
Because she is the most beautiful being, inside and out, who has ever walked this earth. She's undeniably strong &unbelievably intelligent: the traits every woman should strive to attain.

Kuya.
My Brojer, Jose. He's an ASSSS sometimes, but I know he'll be there when shit hits the fan. We've been through a lot &he's one of the only people who can empathize w/my life on another level. That's some untouchable shit! Haha. Buttwipe.

Lolo.
Because he was the epitome of kindness &showed the human race at its best. One of the most selfless men I've ever been blessed enough to encounter. His existence will never be forgotten. *RIP

My Blog

Fish.

When it comes to the matters of the heart, one can only hope for the best. If the worst arises instead, believe that it's for the best. Adversity builds character, and troubles with love are no differ...
Posted by Pamela Joy. on Mon, 08 Oct 2007 09:40:00 PST

All "The Bitch Please" 's in the world.

I hate when chicks think they got you all figured out and get shit so twisted they don't know which way's up. First of all, its a nuisance.Second, it's damn immature. Go read a book.Enlighten you...
Posted by Pamela Joy. on Fri, 05 Oct 2007 06:38:00 PST

PENSAR.

1. The world is filled with ill-willed people pretending to be COMPASSIONates; The challenge is distinguishing WHO in your life is WHAT, from the two.2. Friends are like seasons, they come ...
Posted by Pamela Joy. on Mon, 10 Jul 2006 12:47:00 PST

Them "Ain't Shit N****s".

"..and still screamin 'Niggas ain't shit', maybe its something bout you that attracts 'Ain't shit' niggas.It's not that all men ain't shit, its that all the men you attract aint shit.Maybe you need to...
Posted by Pamela Joy. on Wed, 11 Jul 2007 03:31:00 PST

Infinate Thank You’s.

September 4th, 2007It's unfortunate that we need to be confronted with misfortunein order to be grateful &humble for what is already attained.I pray that it doesn't have to go that far before I th...
Posted by Pamela Joy. on Wed, 05 Sep 2007 09:51:00 PST

21.

ONE.Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.TWO.Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.THREE.Don't believ...
Posted by Pamela Joy. on Thu, 09 Aug 2007 06:17:00 PST

The Greatest Irony Of Love

"The greatest irony of love is loving the right person at the wrong time, having the wrong person when the time is right or finding out you love someone after that person walks o...
Posted by Pamela Joy. on Thu, 21 Dec 2006 11:16:00 PST

INFATUATION vs. L0VE

i read this somewhere, &i thought i'd share...Infatuation is instant desire - one set of glands calling to another.Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a ti...
Posted by Pamela Joy. on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Smile makers.

20 Ways to Stay Sane..this one will make you smile!1. At lunch time, sit in your parked car withsunglasses on and point a hair dryer at passing cars. See ifthey slow down.2. Page Yourself Over The Int...
Posted by Pamela Joy. on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

renita's cotillion &the brown out. (pictures)

bored enough you wanna read this huh haha..well, be my guest...061805 - RENITA'S FUN ASS COTILLION!wow. what can i say about today? i had so much fun at renita's, its beyond words. haha. today was lik...
Posted by Pamela Joy. on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST