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Katy

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About Me


Hey everyone! About me... I'm 24 and graduated from UCCS in 06... I studied Psychology and Philosophy and LOVED it - really hoping to move on to grad school after taking a breather for a little while. I work a lot - full time at Ent Federal Credit Union and part time at Glen Eyrie Castle/Conference Center (I've worked there since I was 16 - it's also where we had our wedding ceremony! Such a beautiful place and only five minutes away.) I absolutely love my jobs and the people I work with (most days anyway). For the most part, I'm a down-to-earth girl. But I can be a perfectionist.. I can be opinionated.. and around certain people I have a VERY short fuse. I don't back down easily and you can bet that if I've got something to say to you, I'm gonna say it. That's just me. I LOVE to travel (especially Europe and ROAD TRIPS!!), as well as draw, write, read, hike, run, and work out now that my lungs are healthy again. I am a huge fan of beaches, art, thunderstorms, comedy clubs, and roller coasters... And I love all kinds of music! I'm addicted to my iPod. I enjoy watching movies in my PJs, just bummin around cuddled up on the couch, being with my friends, and of course heading out to the occasional bar or club on the weekends. As far as pet peeves go, I hate smoking (honestly, it disgusts me). I can't stand needy people, dishonesty, drama, and to a lesser extent, adults who STILL don't know that YOU'RE means YOU ARE. COME ON!!!
Moving on :-) I've played the flute for thirteen years and have always loved performing and competing (Its gotten me to seven countries of Europe, so I definitely can't complain! I can't wait to go back!). Another passion has always been horseback riding, which I did for many years but ended up quitting when my new trainer turned out to be a nightmare... Unfortunately, I just never got around to finding another one. At some point, I really hope to get back into training/showing again in English show jumping (especially now that I don't have to worry about school)! That's it for now...
TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF - The Survey
Name: Kathryn Alissa Hill (used to be Beckmann)
Birthday: July 20 1983
Birthplace: Massachusetts
Current Location: Colorado Springs, CO
Eye Color: greeeeeeen
Hair Color: dark brown
Height: 5'5 ish
Right Handed or Left Handed: right
Your Heritage: scottish, german, etc etc.
The Shoes You Wore Today: heels for work
Your Weakness: this could be a long list. but to start... doing and being everything for everyone else before myself. i usually end up getting walked all over and taken for granted.
Your Fears: suffering of loved ones. spiders. bees. heights. and last but not least, lenny going back to iraq.
Your Perfect Pizza: i'm down with whatever as long as it doesn't have mushrooms.
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year: pay off a lot of debt. and stay healthy.
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger: "LOL" sometimes i say it out loud too HAHA!
Thoughts First Waking Up: $!#$!$%##!@!!
Your Best Physical Feature: eyes and ass..
Your Bedtime: on work nights? between 9 and 11. otherwise, it's whenever.
Your Most Missed Memory: honestly, the first three years of college were really great.
Pepsi or Coke: VODKA
MacDonalds or Burger King: neither
Single or Group Dates: single most of the time.
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea: arizona or celestial seasonings
Chocolate or Vanilla: chocolate!
Cappuccino or Coffee: coffee
Do you Smoke: hell no

Do you Swear: all the time. i guess i have an attitude problem.
Do you Sing: by myself. or when ashley and i go drinking lol
Do you Shower Daily: yes
Have you Been in Love: yes
Do you want to go to College: i already did
Do you want to get Married: already am.
Do you belive in yourself: i have to.
Do you get Motion Sickness: not anymore
Do you think you are Attractive: i have my moments
Are you a Health Freak: not as much as i used to be, but i'd like to improve
Do you get along with your Parents: a lot better now that i dont live at home
Do you like Thunderstorms: I LOVE THEM!!!
Do you play an Instrument: flute since i was eleven. i love it
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: yes sir
In the past month have you Smoked: hell no
In the past month have you been on Drugs: hell no
In the past month have you gone on a Date: with the hubby
In the past month have you gone to a Mall: yah
In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos: no that's disgusting
In the past month have you eaten Sushi: no
In the past month have you been on Stage: not this month..
In the past month have you been Dumped: no
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: lol haven't done that in a few years
In the past month have you Stolen Anything: no
Ever been Drunk: what a dumb question
Ever been called a Tease: haha yeah
Ever been Beaten up: fuck no. i beat bitches up. (that one's for you oscar!!) lmao
Ever Shoplifted: nah, not for me
How do you want to Die: surrounded by loved ones. and rich. LOL j/k
What do you want to be when you Grow Up: no idea really. im happy with what im doing now. but if i get up the energy to go back and get my master's and/or doctorate i'd LOVE to get into Neuropsychology.
What country would you most like to Visit: definitely wanna go back to europe. favorites would have to have been.. switzerland, italy, and london
In a Boy/Girl..
Favourite Eye Color: i am partial to brown
Favourite Hair Color: doesn't really matter but the darker the better
Short or Long Hair: short and clean cut. can you tell i'm a fan of the military
Height: taller than me
Weight: doesn't really matter as long as you're healthy
Best Clothing Style: preppy/classy is hot.
Number of Drugs I have taken: zero
Number of CDs I own: about a thousand j/k but it's a lot, i use my ipods though
Number of Piercings: eight - ears and bellybutton
Number of Tattoos: zero
Number of things in my Past I Regret: i go back and forth a lot on this one.
CREATE YOUR OWN! - or - GET PAID TO TAKE SURVEYS!
"Live like there's no tomorrow.. Dance like nobody's watching.. And love like you've never been hurt."
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"If you don't have a reason to wake up you can loaf around in that gray zone for a long, fuzzy time, or if you want to bad enough I found you can come fighting right out of it."
--Ken Kesey, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest
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You Have A Type A+ Personality
You're driven to succeed every single second of the day, and you don't let up on your goals, no matter how tired you are. You've already achieved a lot in your life, but it's not enough for you. Always on the go, you tend to get things done quickly and effectively. You're intelligent and articulate, and you have the personality to be a successful entrepreneur. Just remember to play a little too, even if play is the most difficult thing for you! Do You Have a Type A Personality?
You're an Expert Kisser
You're a kissing pro, but it's all about quality and not quantity. You've perfected your kissing technique and can knock anyone's socks off! You're adaptable, giving each partner what they crave... When it comes down to it, your kisses are truly unforgettable. What Kind of Kisser Are You?
You Are an Orange Martini
Everyone's favorite drunk, you're fun, flirty, and charming! Unfortunately, you often spark jealousy -- and unintentionally start bar fights. You should never: Drink and dial. You'll just end up with multiple booty calls at your door! Your ideal party: Is huge and lively. You love to work a crowd. Your drinking soulmates: Those with a Blueberry Martini personality. Your drinking rivals: Those with a Dirty Martini personality. What Flavor Martini Are You?
Which Britney Spears are you?
Sexy Almost Naked Britney
You are young and you have nothing to hide. You are a free spirit who has fun dancing and being sexy. You will be old with wrinkles someday, so enjoy it while you can!


Your Kissing Purity Score: 26% Pure
You're not one to kiss and tell... But word is, you kiss pretty well. Kissing Purity Test
"It requires wisdom to understand wisdom; the music is nothing if the audience is deaf."
--Walter J. Lippman
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"A wise man can see more from the bottom of a well than a fool can see from a mountaintop."
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"Great spirits have always encountered opposition from mediocre minds. The mediocre mind is incapable of understanding the man who refuses to bow blindly to conventional prejudices and chooses instead to express his opinions courageously and honestly."
--Albert Einstein
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My Interests



Jewel Standing Still .. ..

"I am wiser than this man; it is likely that neither of us knows anything worthwhile, but he thinks he knows something when he does not, whereas when I do not know, neither do I think I know; so I am likely to be wiser than he to this small extent, that I do not think I know what I do not know."

--Socrates, Qtd. by Plato in The Apology.

"If you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always gotten."
Think that one out.

"What little I've accomplished has been by the most laborious and uphill work, and I wish now I'd never relaxed or looked back -- but said... 'I've found my line -- from now on this comes first. This is my immediate duty -- without this I am nothing.'"
--F. Scott Fitzgerald

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Carrie: "Damn! Why is that girl still bothering me?"

Samantha: "Honey, you have to let it go. If I worried what every bitch in New York was saying about me, I'd never leave the house."
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The Five Love Languages

My primary love language is probably
Quality Time
with a secondary love language being
Physical Touch .

Complete set of results


Quality Time: 11
Physical Touch: 8
Words of Affirmation: 7
Acts of Service: 2
Receiving Gifts: 2

Information

Unhappiness in relationships, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, is often due to the fact that we speak different love languages. Sometimes we don't understand our partner's requirements, or even our own. We all have a "love tank" that needs to be filled in order for us to express love to others, but there are different means by which our tank can be filled, and there are different ways that we can express love to others.

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I'd like to meet:

"Katy" -- parable to "Sheila"
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Music:



"He who does not understand your silence will probably not understand your words."
--Elbert Hubbard

"The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, but wiser people so full of doubts."
--Bertrand Russell

"Luck" is when preparedness meets opportunity.

Television:

Grey's Anatomy. Sex and the City. Friends. Cashmere Mafia. House. Will and Grace. Conan. Leno.

Books:

The Great Gatsby. The Perks of Being a Wallflower. The Human Stain (Roth). The Trial (Kafka). Tuesdays with Morrie. My Name is Asher Lev. The Awakening. (Many more I can't think of at the moment!) Any of Plato's works, and pretty much anything within the realms of psychological or philosophical literature - call me a nerd, but I really enjoy literature that actually has substance and expects something of the reader.
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"It is not difficult to avoid death, gentlemen; it is much more difficult to avoid wickedness, for it runs faster than death."
--Socrates
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"Beggars get handouts before philosophers because people have some idea of what it's like to be blind and lame."
--Diogenes
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"The recipe for perpetual ignorance is: Be satisfied with your opinions and content with your knowledge."
--Elbert Hubbard
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"Deficiency in judgment is just what is ordinarily called stupidity, and for that there is no remedy."
--Immanuel Kant
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Heroes:



Grieve not, nor speak of me with tears,
but laugh and talk of me as if I were beside you.
I loved you so...
Twas heaven here with you.
--Isla Paschal Richardson

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My Blog

this has been enlightening [take][a][bow]

                        you just refuse to bend        &n...
Posted by Katy on Sat, 31 May 2008 05:23:00 PST

[regret]

this is the terminal: the lightgives perfect vision, cruel and hard;the metal glitters, deep and bright.great planes are waiting in the yard--they are already in the night.and you are here beside me,c...
Posted by Katy on Fri, 02 Mar 2007 09:32:00 PST

falling apart

I've beenwatching your world from afar I've beentrying to be where you are And I've beensecretly falling apart unseen... To me, you're strange and you're beautiful You'd be so perfect with mebut ...
Posted by Katy on Mon, 27 Nov 2006 10:21:00 PST

"The Military Wife's Perspective."

***Military Wife's Turn....*** You probably didn't realize who was sitting next to you. You rattled on about how silly/stupid this anti-terrorist war is, and that it's just a political ploy. You compl...
Posted by Katy on Mon, 10 Jul 2006 11:06:00 PST

American Soldier

I'm just trying to be a fatherRaise a daughter and a sonBe a lover to their motherEverything to everyone Up and at 'em, bright and earlyI'm all business in my suitI'm dressed up for success From my he...
Posted by Katy on Tue, 04 Jul 2006 02:07:00 PST

Again and again

Listen, Dear...I need you to hearI cannot disappearI've tried again and again, again and againI know we saidThat we'd give upYou said we'd had enoughAgain and again, again and againBut you, you're alw...
Posted by Katy on Wed, 17 May 2006 11:19:00 PST

here's to happy endings....

John and Mary meet.What happens next?If you want a happy ending, try A.A)John and Mary fall in love and get married. They both have worthwhile and remunerative jobs which they find stimulating and cha...
Posted by Katy on Sun, 26 Feb 2006 04:27:00 PST

damaged...

dreaming comes so easilycuz it's all that i knowtrue love is a fairytalei'm damagedso how would i know?i'm scaredand i am alonei'm ashamedand i need for you to knowi didn't say all the things that i w...
Posted by Katy on Tue, 21 Feb 2006 12:32:00 PST

Jack Handy's Deep Thoughts... my favorite :-)

Too bad you can't buy a voodoo globe so that you could make the earth spin real fast and freak everybody out The face of a child can say it all, especially the mouth part of the face. Anytime I see so...
Posted by Katy on Thu, 16 Feb 2006 11:28:00 PST

random thought

"I just... I just need something to happen. I need a sign that things are gonna change. I need some hope. And in the absence of hope, I need to stay in bed and feel like I might die today." --Meredith...
Posted by Katy on Wed, 08 Feb 2006 01:48:00 PST