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♥ Jen ♥

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me


You Can Change Your Life, But It Won't Be Easy
You really, truly want to change. You're just not sure that you can do it.
You need a solid plan, supportive friends, and a strong will.
Think about times you've made hard changes, and what you did to get through them.
A change is in your future - you just need a little help getting started. Can You Change Your Life?
Hi! My name is Jen and I am a 24 year old female, originally from the Bay Area, and I just moved out to San Jose to pursue a summer job opportunity. I graduated from the University of California, Santa Cruz with my Bachelor's degree in Psychology and in the fall I will start the Master's program for Marriage and Family Therapy at Santa Clara University. It is a dream come true for me.
I thrive in conversation. I am very interested in knowing and learning about people- their motivations, their dreams, their goals, their fears, their aspirations. I am kind, caring, loving, and peaceful.
I am very compassionate, and I tend to offer comfort to those around me. It pains me to see other people hurting, and I do all in my power to help them. I am a giver, an idealist, a dreamer and a philosopher.
If you would like to chat, you can find me on AIM and/or yahoo messenger under the screen name an29gel.

My Interests



6 I am worn out from groaning; all night long I flood my bed with weeping and drench my couch with tears.
7 My eyes grow weak with sorrow; they fail because of all my foes.
8 Away from me, all you who do evil, for the LORD has heard my weeping.
9 The LORD has heard my cry for mercy; the LORD accepts my prayer.
Psalm 6:6-9

The road to success is not straight. There is a curve called Failure, a loop called Confusion, speed bumps called Friends, red lights called Enemies, caution lights called Family. You will have flats called Jobs. But, if you have a spare called Determination, an engine called Perseverance, insurance called Faith, a driver called Jesus, you will make it to a place called Success.

Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. So love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don’t and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said that it would be easy, they just promised it would be worth it.

Your Brain's Pattern

You have a dreamy mind, full of fancy and fantasy.
You have the ability to stay forever entertained with your thoughts.
People may say you're hard to read, but that's because you're so internally focused.
But when you do share what you're thinking, people are impressed with your imagination. What Pattern Is Your Brain?

I'd like to meet:

I am looking for someone to get to know and have a lot of fun with. I am seeking intellectual and thought-provoking conversations, someone who will cause me to think outside of the norm, someone who will introduce me to things I have never seen or known before, someone to relate to and experience the beauty that is life with.

Music:

I like all kinds of music, including: classical (I have been playing the violin for 15 years), jazz, lite rock, alternative, slow jams. I like feel good music, mood setting music, and music that I can dance to. Some of my favorites are: Alanis Morissette, Creed, Mercy Me, Lifehouse.

Movies:

I love romantic comedies and psychological thrillers. Some of my favorite movies include: Hide and Seek, The Lake House, The Italian Job, The American President, American Beauty, A Beautiful Mind, Braveheart, Shop Girl.
Your Five Factor Personality Profile
Extroversion:
You have high extroversion.
You are outgoing and engaging, with both strangers and friends.
You truly enjoy being with people and bring energy into any situation.
Enthusiastic and fun, you're the first to say "let's go!"
Conscientiousness:
You have medium conscientiousness.
You're generally good at balancing work and play.
When you need to buckle down, you can usually get tasks done.
But you've been known to goof off when you know you can get away with it.
Agreeableness:
You have high agreeableness.
You are easy to get along with, and you value harmony highly.
Helpful and generous, you are willing to compromise with almost anyone.
You give people the benefit of the doubt and don't mind giving someone a second chance.
Neuroticism:
You have medium neuroticism.
You're generally cool and collected, but sometimes you do panic.
Little worries or problems can consume you, draining your energy.
Your life is pretty smooth, but there's a few emotional bumps you'd like to get rid of.
Openness to experience:
Your openness to new experiences is high.
In life, you tend to be an early adopter of all new things and ideas.
You'll try almost anything interesting, and you're constantly pushing your own limits.
A great connoisseir of art and beauty, you can find the positive side of almost anything. The Five Factor Personality Test

Television:

I don't watch too much television these days, but when I do turn on the tv I usually like to watch 90210, House, The Dead Zone, Jeopardy, Hereos, HGTV, game shows in general.

Books:

Self help books, psychology texts, classic american literature, poetry, spiritual journies...anything that deepens my knowledge of the world around me.

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Heroes:

Jesus Christ and anyone who isn't afraid to love with their whole being and let faith lead them home.