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About Me

i guess my friends find me funny, deep, cocky, intense, passionate abt life, w/a heart that is all-too-caring & sensitive @ times. i don't live life on the surface; i value genuineness, am loyal, & am guided by a sense that there is Something deeper than what we see w/our eyes. am seen as outgoing by friends, but have always been more introverted by nature.my friends are as different & uncharacterizable as i seem to be. Except I feel the common quality is that they too value Realness & Love as 2 of the greatest human qualities, despite Wide differences in age, gender, education, ethnicity, etc. Being tested by life & coming out Stronger for it seems to be the common denominator.i am Inquisitive, as i always want to be learning More. in my work, i find i have learned or received as much as i hope to have taught & given. i Welcome questions & comments as much as i ask them. layout powered by HOT FreeLayouts.com / MyHotComments

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I'd like to meet:

Anyone who Doesn't Just Live Life on the Surface, cares Deeply about others, keeps it Real, can Cry as hard as they Laugh and leaves this world a Better place because they walked here.


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To all Fathers out there (or FUTURE dads)

Happy Father's Day!My thoughts for you dad's (current & present) come from my reflections on MY dad; & the fact that for many of the boy's i counsel , my PERSONAL experience of fathering.  (probly clo...
Posted by on Sun, 21 Jun 2009 18:43:00 GMT

da life u hav vs da life u wish u had

have just returned frm a week of visiting family n friends in 3 states.  lotz of driving meant lotz of time 4 thinking.my life feels FAR more blessed now than it did when i wuz younger.  i wondered ho...
Posted by on Fri, 12 Jun 2009 20:03:00 GMT

Dealing w/Trust Issues...& Fear

Fear, Pt. III Dealing w/it & w/trust issues Current mood:Concerned ...
Posted by on Sat, 30 May 2009 20:42:00 GMT

Regrets

Regrets.  I see & hear ppl say they have none.  Say what???!!!??  Wow, i have had more than a few.  So, why the diff??I DO believe ppl shd try to live their lives WITHOUT regret.  But that is an IDEAL...
Posted by on Sun, 24 May 2009 20:47:00 GMT

What goes around... (the Other side of that)

It struck me the other day that ppl often use the phrase "what goes around comes around"  all too often in the negative sense.  That is, if someone has done you bad, bad will come around (eventually) ...
Posted by on Sun, 17 May 2009 17:13:00 GMT

What I DO for a living...

Am often asked what is my occupation & when ppl find out i am a psychologist, they often say, "That  must be HARD!"Not really.  See, i actually answer the question this way:  "I give ppl hope," if the...
Posted by on Fri, 08 May 2009 19:19:00 GMT

Dumb YOUNG GaY Men

25 yrs ago yesterday, the virus that was killing gay men was isolated & discovered by scientists.  A mysterious disease that was killing men in horrible and all too brief ways was beginning to be know...
Posted by on Sat, 25 Apr 2009 21:58:00 GMT

Lacking Motivation???

I hear THIS one a LOT!!  from friends, clients, EVEN from MYSELF!!  lol  Certainly, my work as psychologist/therapist is constantly wrapped up in motivational issues:  like trying to motivate the clie...
Posted by on Fri, 17 Apr 2009 17:23:00 GMT

itz ez to forget Lord

itz easy for me to forget that my struggles are so closely known by you.  This week brings home for me just how intimately you came to know our loneliness, pain, rejection, physical suffering, abandon...
Posted by on Sat, 04 Apr 2009 21:24:00 GMT

Are you running on empty?

Seems lots of ppl ARE running on empty, feeling empty, have been left empty.  A strange situation if you live in America, such a land of plenty.  We should lack for nothing, right??  Or so we are cons...
Posted by on Sun, 29 Mar 2009 18:57:00 GMT