I hope you're also selective about the people you choose to spend your time with, and interested in many things, and on a deeper level than most. I am attracted to self-secure people who can add positive energy to any situation. Having a natural open-minded curiosity about life is a must. Enthusiasm is infectious, and I'm attracted to people who have it. Being balanced is key to me--well traveled, yet still curious to see what the world is like--open-minded, yet confident in what you know--humble, but self assured (without being arrogant)--eclectic, but able to keep things simple too--these are all good balancing points. Does this describe you? PS. Playing a musical instrument (or a decent singing voice) is a huge plus.