quiet, but still likes to talk...but not with a loud voice...doesn't have to be super smart, but a quick witt is always nice...a sick twisted humour...a good taste in music and film...appreciates poetry, and my warped mind...someone that doesn't get upset when I have my mood swings, or at least takes it with a grain of salt...someone who loves to laugh...likes to party sometimes...I don't mind bitchy, but only witty bitchy...like, smart bitchy...i don't like straight bitchyness, where they go all nuts...ummm, someone that takes life with a good POV...but has her moods...i don't mind a fight here and there...i can handle that...and most of all, she can't be controlling or manipulative...those two are complete turn offs...