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A man asked the woman he was pursuing the question, What kind of man are you looking for? She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eyes and asking, Do you really want to know? Reluctantly, he said, Yes. She began to speak. As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to ask a man what he can do for me that I can't do for myself. I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask, what can you bring to the table? The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought and stated, I am not referring to money. I need something more. I need a man who is striving for perfection in every aspect of life. He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her to explain. She said, I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don't need a simple minded man. I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked. Believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for perfection financially because I don't need a financial burden. I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman but strong enough to keep me grounded. I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive he just has to be worthy. God made woman to be a help mate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself. When she finished speaking, she looked at him. He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said, You are asking a lot. She replied, I am worth a lot.

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"A DOG DOESN'T BECOME A REAL MAN UNTIL HE LOOSES A REAL WOMAN. A GOOD WOMAN DOESN'T BECOME A BITCH UNTIL SHE'S BEEN WITH A DOG.
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If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.Slower is better.Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle.If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.The only person you can control in a relationship is you.Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything.He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior.Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man.If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs.You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way street.You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship >You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.Right.Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man.(Hallelujah, thank you Jesus!) Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

Music:

Jill Scott, Vivian Green, Teddy, Ottis, and whoever else leaves me in deep thought after the beat stops.

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I am deeply into poetry....spoken word, I do believe actions speak louder that words, but depending on the way you verbalize your feelings, an action can become a still movement.

Heroes:

I'd have to say I am my own hero, because I show myself some amazing things.
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Playing Double Dutch in Heaven

You say walk away, like it's just that easy So i didYou say don't call or text So i won'tI'll go my way and you go yoursNow that it's done, you still continue to try and shame meNot remembering the pr...
Posted by Ms. Avay....In a class all by myself! on Tue, 09 Sep 2008 10:38:00 PST

If Ever

If ever there was a feeling that I thought I would want to feel again, It would be from you, Should there ever be a thought that I wanted to share I would love to share it with you. The way you touch ...
Posted by Ms. Avay....In a class all by myself! on Sun, 06 Jul 2008 02:17:00 PST