As far as friends are concerned, I want to meet people that are different from me but who I still enjoy hanging out with. Variety is the spice of life. That's whats so great about New York, there is so much diversity. Every single person that I have met is completely different from the last. Everybody has a different past and a different future. You learn so much just talking with everybody here. As far as a girl is concerned, I have been giving this one a lot of thought lately. I want a girl who's top priority is God but can still go out on the town and have a good time. I love going out, but i want a girl that can stay in as well. There is a lot to be said for curling up on a warm couch and a nice relaxing movie for two. Spontaneity is a plus too. I am a random, last minute person and I want someone who can keep up. A girl that likes sports and plays them is a major plus. I am not talking about the kind that will just go with their boyfriend (although that's better then nothing), I am talking about the kind that will go by themselves if they have too, they just love the game. Until recently, I had given up hope that they even existed. And the last thing, not to sound shallow, but I need to be attracted to them, otherwise it just wont work.