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To be honest wit ya..Im probably one of the realist women you will eva meet...I dont have time for drama...If I have to argue wit ya...I just dont need ya in my life because life is way to short to be unhappy...I guess thats why im still single...Im not lookin for someone that already has a chic....Cause one thing for certain and two things for sure...I demand to be #1 in my mans life and will never accept #2 for the exception of God, his family and his children!!! I was taught by a very wise woman to never settle for less...My LESSONS LEARNED!!!.... Everything that glitters ain't gold and everything sweet just ain't suga...That's what my granmomma used to say...I thought that I understood those concepts until my last relationship ended...Now I can honestly say after all this time I finally get it...I have learned a lot of hard lessons in life over the years but I can say that the past year has taught me a lot....Loving someone to much just isn't good for you....You can put all of you into someone but if they don't want the same thing as you or they just aren't ready to make the same steps you are no matter how hard we try it just isn't gonna work...My relationships are already filled with adversity so the littlest things can make a big difference....Financial status, having three children and not being able to have anymore, having been married, the life that I came from, to only dating outside my race (just to name a few of those adversities)...All of these things I am always upfront about but in the end it seems like they always come back and bite me in the ass and become a problem no matter how much people say they that they wont be a problem....I have come to the conclusion that you can't keep a man that isn't ready to be kept so there isn't any sense in trying....Sometimes we just gotta let it go....Sure it may hurt a lil but time heals all wounds...and if we really evaluate things there are always lessons to be learned... It's up to us to figure out what those are... learn from them...and hopefully never make the same mistakes again... Is there someone out there for me...I don't know...Am I okay with the fact that there may not be...Of course I am...Am I open to a new relationship of course sometime in the future but I'm not obsessed with lookin....I feel like if its meant to be it will be....I will be blessed with that someone if its in the plan God has set forth for me....God has a plan for each and everyone of us...its just up to us to let him do his work....Never be obsessed with the past and always look for the future...because tomorrow is always gonna be a brighter day
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Name: Krista...AKA....Kay Kay
Birthday: Oct 4, 1974....Great Day Im gettin old...
Birthplace: Zanesville, Ohio
Current Location: Jacksonville, Florida
Eye Color: Green
Hair Color: Auburn for Now....
Height: 5'2
Right Handed or Left Handed: Right
Your Heritage: Irish & German
The Shoes You Wore Today: Black open toe high heels
Your Weakness: Mt.Dew ;)
Your Fears: Spiders, Lizards, and creepy little creature's that crawl
Your Perfect Pizza: Pepperoni & X-tra Cheese
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year: To achieve a closer relationship with my lord an savior
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger: ummmmmmm Okay
Thoughts First Waking Up: Thank you jesus for waking me up to see another day!!
Your Best Physical Feature: Thats up to you
Your Bedtime: When ever I get tired
Your Most Missed Memory: Spending Time wit my Momma and my grandmother may they both RIP....
Pepsi or Coke: Coke....
MacDonalds or Burger King: MacDonalds
Single or Group Dates: Either one is fine
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea: Lipton
Chocolate or Vanilla: Chocolate of course..
Cappuccino or Coffee: Cappuccino
Do you Smoke: Nope...Had to leave it alone....
Do you Swear: Thats a work in progress...
Do you Sing: I try...Not sure if anyone wants to hear though
Do you Shower Daily: Of course and I would hope that you do to!!
Have you Been in Love: Yes....
Do you want to go to College: I already been but would like to go back
Do you want to get Married: If god sees it fit to bless me with that certain someone then Yes I will get married again
Do you belive in yourself: If I don't who else will
Do you get Motion Sickness: Naw...
Do you think you are Attractive: Yes...I think Im attractive...If I don't know body else will
Are you a Health Freak: No..but I am workin on it though...Goin to the gym 6 days a week now!!b>
Do you get along with your Parents: I don't have any parents but..I used to get along wit my Momma

Do you like Thunderstorms: ummm emmm....I never have....
Do you play an Instrument: Nope....
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: Yeah...I had a drink...
In the past month have you been on Drugs: Nope...
In the past month have you gone on a Date: No..but I do have a friend I been chillin wit..
In the past month have you gone to a Mall: Yep
In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos: Nope...Im tryin to get right
In the past month have you eaten Sushi: Nope havent eaten Sushi in a minute....
In the past month have you been on Stage: Nope.....
In the past month have you been Dumped: No..I have been single for a minute now
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: I used to skinny dip but now I chunkie Dunk..LOL Not fa real I dont do that stuff anymore!!
In the past month have you Stolen Anything: Nope
Ever been Drunk: I used to stay that way!!
Ever been called a Tease: Nope.....Not in a long time.....
Ever been Beaten up: Nope not unless you consider those butt whoppins I used to get from my momma!!!
Ever Shoplifted: I did a lot of crazy stuff back in the day....
How do you want to Die: What kinda question is dat????
What do you want to be when you Grow Up: I am grown
What country would you most like to Visit: Africa
In a Boy/Girl..
Favourite Eye Color: Brown/Hazel/Green
Favourite Hair Color: Doesn't Matter
Short or Long Hair: What ever looks neat and clean
Height: 6'0 +
Weight: Dont Matter....
Best Clothing Style: What eva looks neat and clean long as it ain't tight
Number of Drugs I have taken: None!!!b>
Number of CDs I own: too many

Number of Piercings: only 7 in my ears
Number of Tattoos: 4 at this time...
Number of things in my Past I Regret: I never regret anything that I do or that I have done...I only try to learn from the mistakes that Ive made and move forward...Never dwell on the past....because it is the past for a reason!!!
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Tired

I take 5 steps foward an he always manages to knock me 50 steps back...i dont know if i even have the strength 2 fight anymore....you got it u win....you have offically beatin me so far into the dirt ...
Posted by on Fri, 04 Sep 2009 11:08:00 GMT

Confused

Where do i belong? Why is it so hard to find my place? Why do we have to take the bad with the good... Why cant it jus be the good with the good? Why is it that life love and relationships have to be ...
Posted by on Sun, 30 Aug 2009 22:18:00 GMT

Why try...

Why try 2 hold me back..Its funny how some people act...especially when they see personal growth within a person or see them moving forward in life..They always wanna place road blocks in front of yo...
Posted by on Mon, 29 Jun 2009 06:47:00 GMT

It's Amazing

You know its amazing how God continues to make his self presant in my life.....No matter how far I seem to stray from his word...He continues to bless me...It seems as though I lost sight of that for ...
Posted by on Wed, 04 Mar 2009 16:51:00 GMT

They Say I Look At Them Different!!!

They say that I look at them differently now....I dont think its so much of me lookin at them differenlty as it is me lookin at my own life differently....I dont have time for ignorance nor am I gonna...
Posted by on Sat, 17 Jan 2009 15:01:00 GMT

Learning 2 Love Again!!!

I find myself thinkin bout him more often than not and that scares the mess out of me...It scares me because that means that I am opening myself up to the possibility of getting my heart broke again.....
Posted by on Wed, 14 Jan 2009 22:52:00 GMT

Makin A Change...

You know the first step to change is to realize where we have fallen short or continue to fall short and to face the mistakes that we have made head on. I have made so many mistakes over the past few ...
Posted by on Sun, 11 Jan 2009 22:23:00 GMT

Determined!!!

I dont think I have ever in my life been so determined to do the right thing....I mean I may stray off the beaten path for a minute but I am truly dedicated to making big changes in my life for my chi...
Posted by on Fri, 09 Jan 2009 15:27:00 GMT

New Year...New Beginnings!!!!

It's a new year with new beginnings....It's tough being where I am right now but I know that god has a plan for me....It's been six months and I still miss him like crazy but god has blessed me with t...
Posted by on Sun, 04 Jan 2009 14:11:00 GMT

Truly Blessed

I have to say that I am truly blessed!!! For so long I sat round being miserable about so many things and so many situations but god has a way of bringing things to light and guiding us in the right d...
Posted by on Fri, 02 Jan 2009 22:55:00 GMT