some mature people who can handle their liquor, their mouths and their emotions... some attractive women who like to dance and party without getting too close... I'm not Mr. Right!... I'll be your best friend and do anything I can for you, but don't lay your rules, your happiness, your financial troubles or your self-esteem problems on me... twice divorced and not really looking... not to say that it can't happen, but as a musician who is looking to get back in the limelight and as a man who likes to be alone a lot, I would need an emotionally strong, self-assured women who has left her junior high jealousy back in junior high; who has something to do in life besides smother me; who isn't going to cage and control me with her 'needs'; who isn't going to have a complete emotional breakdown when her pet dies... and how many of those are there?... none that I have found... if you won't let your man dance and talk with other women, why go out?... same for the guys, of course... I hate the old double standard... I kinda expect women to be jealous, but it's repulsive to me to see a male act like that... as a (mostly) conservative who spent many years on a farm as a kid, I don't care for 'dainty' women whose arms look like they've never lifted anything heavier than a makeup case and can't handle the real world because it's 'icky'... what I need is a woman who can kill, clean and cook a rabbit in the afternoon, then throw on a mini-skirt and some high heels and meet me out for drinks and dancing... yeah, good luck!... finding someone I clicked with sexually would be nice, but it's not important... besides being married to a couple of sexually voracious women, I was a singer and/or drummer in a rock band for nearly 20 years, so what are you gonna do that I haven't had done 10 thousand times?... wait, don't answer that... ha!... Uhhh, on second thought, go ahead and answer that!... I'm kinda jaded and spoiled in that respect... and, at this age, I can't really pull the hottie 20-somethings I was used to for so long and since that's about the only thing that get's me going (sexually, anyway); well, what the hell... if I did get into another 'relationship' I certainly wouldn't want it to be based on the shifting sands of sex... besides, I have a couple of physical concerns that would need discussing before anything like that happend... and, I'm terrified of pregnancy!... so, let's just dance and have a good time, shall we?...