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Well, where do I start. I am happily married to a wonderful man and am the mother to three grown children: one daughter and two sons. My husband and I live in the mountains of Western North Carolina. He is retired but I am still working at a job that I truly enjoy. But I do look forward to my weekends and working in the yard, enjoying our retired racing greyhound and chihuahua who thinks she is a greyhound! I also enjoy spending time with family and friends. I must admit that I am overweight but am trying to make some lifestyle changes in that department! It is difficult, to say the least. I am finding it is more challenging as you get older to take off the excess weight but I am motivated and am giving it an honest shot! I am very active in our local American Cancer Society Relay For Life. For the past two years I have been involved with the survivors and it has been such an inspiration and truly wonderful experience for me. I cannot say enough about the bravery and spirit of cancer survivors!! Well, "Back in the Day" there were no worries about approaching and actually spending time on the scale.....(this is a pic of me taken at age thirty...) But now....there is alot more of me to love and find this to be true: However, I am attemping to work myself into a comfortable place where I am completely serene (or close to it) with my current state of extra poundage and mature years! The mature years don't bother me in the least. Every year has been a blast and I wouldn't trade all those memories for a lower age number.... I guess we all have a mental picture of ourselves...and my current state is not it!! But, like I mentioned before ~ I hope to achieve a more healthy lifestyle and a look that is more svelte!!! It's gonna happen....oh, I will never look like the bikini pic of years gone by. That's okay. I'll be thrilled to pieces if I can get at least 50 pounds off.Honestly speaking I am hoping to lose more than that. Then...oh, then I'll feel skinny!!!!Another thing that I really love is the rain....soft steady rain that is good for our earth. There is something relaxing and cozy about a rainy day when you can just stay in, light a candle...and have that quiet time that we so need every now and then.... I know it doesn't seem like much....but a really good cup of coffee the first thing in the morning is something so special....

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I would truly like to find friends I have never met...and to continue friendships with those I have known and loved in my lifetime. Our lives are passing by so quickly and I believe we often just take many things (and people) for granted. I am trying to appreciate and be grateful for what I have in my life and to live it to the very fullest. I would like to meet people who feel the same way! I wish I could have met Randy Pausch. He was a professor at Carnegie Mellon and gave his last lecture - the premise being ' if you could give a lecture before you die what would you say'.Below is his last lecture that has inpired me and countless others around the world. Randy has been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer, has three small children and he was given six months to live a few months ago. Take the time to watch his last lecture...it will change the way you live the life you have been given.....in a good way! Note: Randy died on July 25th, 2008. My thoughts and prayers are with his lovely wife Jai and his three adorable children: two boys and a little girl. And to Randy ~ thank you for that Last Lecture. I got the book and it (along with the lecture) has enriched my life and the way I look at things. For that I shall always be thankful. ..

My Blog

A message to my friends.....

Namaste.Some of you have noticed that I haven't been logging on to myspace very much lately.  I miss interacting with you all.  I treasure the friendships I have found here.  Each of you are very spec...
Posted by on Tue, 09 Dec 2008 12:14:00 GMT

A Great Recipe

A GREAT RECIPE... 1. Take a 10-30 minute walk every day. And while you walk, smile. It is the ultimate anti-depressant. 2. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day. Talk to God about what is go...
Posted by on Wed, 01 Oct 2008 07:55:00 GMT

Old Age I have decided is a Gift....

A friend sent me the following....it says so much of what I feel. So, I decided to blog it for all my friends to enjoy as well.     Old Age, I decided, is a gift.    I am now, prob...
Posted by on Tue, 24 Jun 2008 10:25:00 GMT

The World We Live In.....

This afternoon I decided to drive to the Sams Club in Asheville to get some things for our Father's Day Grill feast planned to honor my husband, the father of our children.  I like Sam's .... oft...
Posted by on Sat, 14 Jun 2008 16:58:00 GMT

God vs Science

God vs science     A science professor begins his school year with a lecture to the  students, "Let me explain the problem science has with religion." The  atheis...
Posted by on Wed, 28 Nov 2007 06:34:00 GMT

Be still.....

On my page I make mention of a monthly "get together" of a few close friends....first we get in the hot tub and relax, upon leaving the hot tub we quietly get settled and have our time of meditation.&...
Posted by on Sun, 04 Nov 2007 15:18:00 GMT

Being Grateful

Often I find it is easy to take some things or many things for granted. I am talking about things that we don't think about. We just assume that blessings that we have will remain. Recently, when I w...
Posted by on Tue, 23 Oct 2007 10:03:00 GMT

Contemplating My Life

          Looking back over my shoulder at my life so far it is very easy for me to know that my life has been what I would call blessed.  I was bor...
Posted by on Wed, 03 Oct 2007 08:39:00 GMT

Four Wives.....

The Four Wives.......author unknownOnce upon a time there was a rich King who had four  wives.He loved the 4th wife the most and adorned her with rich robes  and  treatedher to the fi...
Posted by on Fri, 28 Sep 2007 03:16:00 GMT

Clay Balls.....

Clay Balls..........Author Unknown          ; A man was exploring caves by the seashore.  In one of the caves he found a canvas bag with a bun...
Posted by on Fri, 14 Sep 2007 07:56:00 GMT