☆Dena☆

Just to let you know.......
If I don’t know you don’t expect me to add you!!!
♥ this is my myspace page
not my real life, or whole life
i have alot of things i keep off the web
i share what i want to share
i keep private what i want private ♥
GUIDELINES:
When sending me a message or a comment
You will not receive a reply if:

(*)Your default picture is of anything other than yourself. If I wanted to talk to Paris Hilton or anyone in My Chemical Romance, I'd find them myself.
(*)If you don't have any information about yourself on your myspace page. I took the time to write about my self so should you!!!
(*)Your Myspace name ends with at the Disco or is Legend.
(*)You type LikE tHiS aNd ThE OnLy tHiNgS in your general interests are cuddling, boys, and Fall Out Boy. Boys, that also applies to you.
(*)You can't use English. If you say things like hey lolz I like ur hair I was wondering if u could whore me well hit me up l8ter k peace or damn gurl u fine holla at me. No you illiterate fuck, I will not HOLLER AT YOU.
(*)You call me hot, sexy, ask for more pictures, and/or ask if we can meet anywhere. Stop being a creep.
(*)You FEEL THE NEED TO TYPE IN ALL CAPS. Your keyboard has a Caps Lock button for a reason, use it.
(*)You thank me for adding you.
(*)You are a self-proclaimed model. Just because you and your friends like to take pictures of yourselves on a weekly basis in your living room, backyard, bathroom, and garage.. Does not mean you are a model.
(*)If you can't see that I am serious about all of this...

(*)You assume that by me posting this, it means I think I'm better than everyone else simply because they can't use full words. I happen to be a fan of WORDS so if you can't USE THEM.. Don’t.
I will, however, reply to you if:
(*)You can spell. It doesn’t have to be perfect... just readable
(*)You can read.
(*)You can start up a decent conversation.
(*)You are attractive (I have no reason to lie to you).
(*)We share music interests.
(*)I think we can benefit from one another.
(*)You live in the area or some place I know and seem interesting or you have something to say.
(*)Once again, if you can spell.. Its most likely Ill want to talk to you.
A LITTLE BIT MORE OF GUIDELINES FOR POSTING COMMENTS ON MY PAGE:

(*) I LOVE supporting other peoples bands/ clothing companies, etc. I feel very strongly about taking the time to support other musicians - but if you don't allow people to put HTML comments on YOUR page - DON'T PUT THEM ON OTHERS... if you are a band that doesn't allow others to post html on your page and I know about it - I won't approve your comments. I hate that shit.

(*) Don't be selfish and post a comment, which takes up half of my comment space, it is annoying and rude...

(*)Be Nice to the other people who have left comments.

(*)Only post once a week... not every day - please.

(*)Last - but not least- if you are gonna post a comment, say something personal as well - makes me feel like you don't consider me an "advertising space"... ya know?!
Now a little bit about who I am. Now you may realize that I am sometimes a little hypercritical but may I ask who isn't??? Ill try anything once I guess- I mean if I like it ill keep on doing it but if not never do it again- at least ill know that I have tried it and that I didn't miss out on something....
I LIVE MY LIFE TO THE FULLEST POENTIAL THAT I CAN I DONT JUST MERELY EXISTS....
I know that I have made mistakes. I don’t keep expectations- they only let you down and disappoint you. Just be you and it’ll probably be the hardest thing you’ll ever do. I am who I am and I want what I want and nothing will ever change that.
I'm just a girl- I stand up for myself and what I believe in. I’m not afraid to tell you like it is- I’m independent, sarcastic and unpredictable.
Live life and don't get caught up in silly nonsense!
As far as what I'm all about and how my personality goes I'm that silly fun to be around girl, I'm like a little kid sometimes because I make funny faces and make noise to keep me entertained (but I know this sounds funny but whatever I really don't care what you think lol). Then at other times I'm the down to earth serious girl. I'm also fun loving and out going. I love doing new things and being with the one I adore and then some. Friends and family are a huge part of my life and they are just as silly as I am. Being silly and having fun is what I'm all about
ANYTHING NEW AND EXCITING THAT SOUNDS FUN I'LL DO....
I really love to hold hands the entire time kiss and cuddle all the time, that's just what I do.I suppose you can say I'm a hopeless romantic as well because I love the mushy kisses in tiny restaurants, the flirty eyes when no ones looking and the passionate moments.
I'm totally awesome (but I'm not that into myself lol), laid back when I need to be and crazy when I want to be, and I LOVE to shop. I'm spoiled and I always want things to go my way and if they don't I will throw a huge fit! But I do give in to others sometimes only if I do agree!!! I love to do anything and try anything. I saw the ocean once in person and swam in it twice. It was very fun (I did this when I went to Mexico in the winter of 2006 who knew that Xmas in Mexico would be amazing).
I hope to someday learn how to scuba dive, bungee jump, sky dive, rock climb not on a wall but on a real mountain, surf, hunt, fly an airplane, race in races, be on stage even if it's drunken karaoke. There was this one time though that I was with the band EFE in Chicago at the Metro- I got to play air guitar with them on stage! That was awesome. I want to travel to every single country in the world and ever state in the USA. So far i have been to many states (but not all of them.... I also have only been to 3 countries (Canada, Mexico and also USA). The one state that I really want to go to is Alaska- maybe Arthur and I will go there on our honey moon.......
I'm a very non-religious person I believe in only myself, because I know I'm real, and I've seen me, lol. I'm searching for something but haven't found it yet!

I shop anywhere from, Coach, Diesel, Guess, and Juicy Couture, to Target, and Kohl’s. I HATE Wal-Mart-I can't stand it. My favorite store is EXPRESS (incase you didn’t know I work there) and my other favorite is Victoria Secrete.
I love learning, and teaching, I love giving and receiving, I love to make people laugh and cry, I love to be nice and be the biggest bitch ever, I love to make myself happy before anyone else, but then again, who doesn't do that?! At least I can admit it! I love to make other people happy as well I mean don't get me wrong. But i can only make you happy if I am happy too you know!!!!
On one last really personal note: I pout when I don’t get my way. I squint when I want the lights turned off or the sun is too bright. I pretend to be tired when I’m bored. I frown when I’m intrigued which a lot of times people just think I’m angry or bored, not true. I smile when something amuses me or when I realize that I just saw the hottest guy across a room and he's in for a treat. I talk when I have nothing better to talk about. And no matter who you are, I have a tendency to spill every piece of information about me- And my life- And my experiences
I’m not afraid to tell someone I don’t like him or her or I don’t care about him or her, which is rare. I remember a lot of little moments and specific details that not many people wouldn't remember. I lie to those who I think have lied to me. I act like I hate someone, when really; I’m just hiding my love for them. I dream of people that I care or worry about, best friends, or random people I’ve never met. I cry over the little things and laugh at the biggest and just tell myself that shit happens.
I am my heart, it's the strongest thing about me. I live every day knowing there is no going back & you never know what the future holds. I believe that life truly is what you make of it. I've made my fair share of mistakes in life, but have learned many valuable lessons from them & have honestly become a stronger, better person with each of them. I feel that there is something to be learned from everything & everyone. I love the differences that each person possesses making them, them. My friends & family mean the world to me & I'm thankful for them each & everyday. I'm very loyal to & protective over the people I care about. I love with all of my heart & have no fear of doing so. There is no better feeling or ability than love. I believe that people will always come & go from your life in various ways, but as long as you keep them in your heart, they're always with you. I don't hold grudges... I forgive but never forget usually. Never talk down to me. You're no better than me, just as I'm no better than you. I'm very open minded & tend to speak my mind. I will always do my best at seeing someone's point of view, even if I don't agree with them. I sometimes think too much & other times dont think enough. I ask when I don't know, even if I come off as a complete idiot. Don't bother trying to make me feel stupid, I know I'm not. But, I'm a complete goof & love to laugh, often it's at myself. I love making memories & almost always have my camera with me. I'm a pro at finding the bright side to any situation & am almost always in a good mood. On the rare occasion that I'm in a bad mood, I keep to myself. It's extremely difficult to piss me off & if you do, be prepared to have your ass handed to you in one way or another. Don't try to change me. Not only is it wrong to do so, but it won't work. I love who I am. All & all, I'm me...
If you don’t make me laugh, you’re wasting my time. If you don’t tell me everything you’re thinking about, Ill stop caring and think you don’t care. If I feel I’m meant to be with someone Ill never let them go. If you so happen to meet me when I’m drunk, consider yourself in big trouble- he-he- I’m a flirt beyond flirting With anyone at anytime. If I tell you that I love to do something, and then I obviously mean it, I don't lie about things I enjoy!

Avoid taking anything I say too seriously.
♥I am DEEPER than you think.
♥ If you would like to contradict me, I'm game.
♥ I can most likely figure you out within 5 minutes of having a conversation with you.
♥ I believe myself to be genuine and I would never betray the ones I love.
♥ I value my family and those who are REAL.
♥ I am constantly thinking and I love to write poetry.
♥ I have loved... Lost... and Learned.
♥ I yearn for those that put a smile on my face.
♥ I crave for the one that will give to me what I will give back.
♥ I do not belong to anyone EXCEPT to those that belong to me
♥ Satisfaction is found on my own.
♥Don't Lust for what you See...
♥Desire what you know.
♥I'm an odd ball, but I love it.
♥I'm silly and goofy
♥I'm very sarcastic and a huge smartass.
♥I love the rain
♥I will give you everything if you deserve it.
♥ you have to earn my respect and if you loose it its gone for good
♥my past is almost a blur to me sometimes.
♥ but it isnt now and i'm aiming for the future to be clear
♥I have been to hell and back in life, through many trials and tribulations... although I have learned a lot from life.
♥I will always stand out
♥I will always be different..
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♥i am a lover of being loved
♥I like brandnew socks.
♥in the moment is where i love and like to be
♥I love photography and photoshop.
♥i'm pretty hardheaded and stubborn
♥I'm also very kindhearted and sweet.
♥i love to sleep with a boyfriend or a ton of pillows
♥When i get really pissed off i will just sit there in complete silence.
♥lived in chicago most my life.
♥ love to talk about old times
I’m a fan of words. I enjoy putting them together and taking them apart (not the words themselves... more like forming sentences, and novels.... I’m also a fan of literacy. In which case, please refrain from using u and ur when engaging in an e-exchange of words (hate mail included). I’m very aware some people like to think using shorthand saves time. Well, if you can’t spell out a full word you happen to use everyday, don’t bother sending a message. It will save your time, and mine. This includes, but is not solely subject to, the proper use of your, you’re, there, their, and they’re. Reading and writing is taught in school for a reason, enjoy it while you can. I don’t expect you to be a mastermind, just THINK before you SPEAK.
For your questions: I’ve never had a set group of friends and I do intend to keep it that way. I enjoy new faces and new ideas. I do care what you think (contrary to popular belief). Care meaning: I think it over. Care not meaning: I will change for you. I won’t help your band because I know you. I WILL help your band if I like your music and/or think other people will like it. I plan to BE something, this will not change... and I guarantee you it will happen. With that said, do not get in my way. If your intention is to fuck me over, I suggest you think it over first. I’m not a mean person at all; I just know what I want... And when I want something... I will get it. I don’t expect or want things to come to me. I’d rather work for money than have it fall into my lap (although a large indefinite amount of money would be rather helpful, ha-ha). JUST REMEMBER: I don't look at myself as being better than anyone else solely because I have thousands of friends on a website. But once again, make your mark... I have, will, and continue to.
I am not defined by
my appearance
the music I listen to
the way I dress
people I associate with, etc.
I am my own person
[and chances are,
you'll never really know me.]
Basically that sums me up.
If you've read all this, thank-you.
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