The key to getting chicks, The key to getting laid, The key to appearing successfull, The key to being successfull, it all begins with something I had to learn myself. LOVE YOURSELF. Love your self first. Im not talking about masterbation. You elementary morons out there. Im talking to you about, the way you feel about yourself defines everything you are and everything you ever can be. In all my life, I was raised by a single mother in a middle class neighborhood in rialto. I was raised with my siblings and my mom who is the hardest working person I ever knew, she worked her ass her whole life attempting to make a living and support a family. The moment came when I stood up and said "Im better then all this, Im smarter, got more going for me, I dont want to be caught in the quicksand" I used to have this one particular female for a girlfriend during highschool. Luckily I was able to get out of it. It could of got me caught in the quicksand. The quicksand where you make 25,000 a year and stay there. The quicksand where you have three kids before the age of 21. The quicksand of not going to college. Not ever being a professional, not ever making any money, not ever being able to say "I am someone". My whole life has been about trying to improve a lot in life because I know I am destined to be somebody. To be somebody great. The problem with some of you guys is that you start off life thinking, "I have nothing, my family has nothing, Im just smoking weed and Im drinking and i got my girlfriend that will have sex with me ten times a day, Nothing more is ever going to come of this" Im here to tell you that I came out of the same world your at now. I grew up dirt poor. I grew up in a family where we did not know successful people. And we didnt know how to be successful. But I said "Ef all that, Im better then that, I am better then that". Over the years I did some backsliding, I fell off the wagon. Sometimes I felt bad for myself, I felt lonley I felt alone. Then i realized I had to get back up on the wagon. I had to get back up on the horse. I would constantly remind myself that I am better then all that, that I deserved to be loved. NOT BY WOMEN! I dont look for love in the people I am having sex with! Love has to come from within. You have to love you! The reason you boys get into so much trouble is because in many cases you dont have faith in yourself, you dont love yourself, you dont ever think your going to be anybody. I grew up in rialto. There was no reason for me to beleive that I was going to be anything or anyone. Had I been like so many of you and said "fuck it, ill just get a job at the factory and be done with it" I wouldnt be standing here talking to you now. I want to remind you that if what you want to do is to get laid you have to be successful or you have to appear to be successful. And in order to do that You have to LOVE YOURSELF. AND BELEIVE IN YOURSELF. Dont expect other people to pump up your ego or pump up your self-esteem. It has to come from you.You have to beleive you are great. You have to beleive you are better then others and if you dont beleive that then you need to become better then others. Get more schooling, work harder, practice more, practice your jumpshot. What ever it is you have to do, if you are not better then others make yourself better then others. YOU WILL GET LAID. YOU WILL HAVE MONEY. You will be able to breath easily when bad things happen. If there is one thing ive notice talking with people over the years, its that so many of you have no faith in yourself! You dont love yourself. You dont even like yourself. You dont thing your going to be anybody and you will live your life like you wont be anybody. You have sex w ithout condoms, you take risks, You risk HIV You risk impreginating people, you dont care! Because you dont think there is nothing going on in your life anyway! There were times in my life that I just wanted to be a low life. Live with moms, drink beer not have a job and hustle. Just be a peice of shit like evryone is Santa Ana. THANK GOODNESS I DIDNT! Because I had no idea how great it was all going to turn out! AND THE SAME WILL HAPPEN FOR YOU! But first you have to beleive it and you have to have reason to beleive it. START LOVING YOURSELF! Start treating yourself like your better then all this! Pretty soon you will be better then all this. I love you guys. I just want the best from each and everyone of you!
