What I'm looking for: Good question? I want someone that will understand me, and not only says they do but really don't. I want someone that will understand my past, and not tell me to put it behind me, because that is what made me what I am today. I want someone that would do for me, as I would do for them- stick by them though the good and bad times, try the damness to hold on to what you want. I don't want someone to tell me what I can or cannot do, I don't want to be controlled. And pass any test that either one would give out (that is a hard one for most guys I found out). Honesty is very important, even if it hurts! Understanding, comfort, security, and a safe feeling. I guess what more can I say. Maybe he is out there, and maybe he isn't will just have to wait and see. I don't need someone that won't let me be me, or have my own ideas or own opinions.