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tonda

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About Me

sweet and sour... sassy and fun... control freak..? nah.. i just know how things should be and could be done better, it's your buisness if you want them done half ass. i like to have fun, and i love to laugh. laugh at people , laugh with people... it's all in good spirit. i love my friends and will do anything in the world for them. my friends treat me like a princess. love, honor and respect... that's what it is all about. life is short enough... have fun, party hard but party safe, and remember that you only take out of this life what you put into it. love is free... let it be your gift. it's my gift. people and relationships... that's what i do best. i love music.. i feel that it is the one thing that unites the whole world. i love to shake my groove on the dance floor too. this life is my dancefloor. and i love it.

My Interests

I love Jim Morrison.. i love California, hot people...i love music, good down groove beats, dancing and hanging with friends. i love sitting in and cooking dinner for my friends, i love my ipod, my mac, drinking fantastic wine.. eating fantastic cheese.. and pairing the two! I LOVE SUSHI... i love going to the beach, surfing... soaking in the sun, being outside, watching football, sleeping in, laughing...watching Ab Fab, dinner parties.. i love cooking.. playing poker.. i love being around people that make me smile.. and my son does it best!!

I'd like to meet:

sexy girls.. sexy boys.. whoever... but do me a favor.. don't try and add me if you haven't bothered to chat it up with me first. its seriously getting rediculious! apparently no one is bothering to read profiles anymore. i am not interested in people who only look at pics to determine who they want to befriend. its too shallow for me! i am not here for a popularity contest. I AM NOT HERE TO PROMOTE ANYONE'S BAND!! if you think you have something in common with me.. great, if you dont.. then what else really should be said...? oh and all you perverts out there who think its cool to approach women by telling them what you wish you could do to them.. i would consider this a fair warning!

Music:

"ITS ALL ABOUT.....the music It’s an upward ride. The highs have no limits. I reach the top and the music pulls me deeper, not higher but DEEPER into my soul. I am flying in my thoughts and riding the music.It’s a different journey every time…. I await the surprise but instead reach in to find myself.I am free for the first time and I have an everlasting companion…music. I am content with love, life and myself. No expectations….just pure reactions to feelings and emotion. The music makes you one with yourself. Once you find that shared ground, you cannot separate yourself from your body, nor your mind, nor the beat…you can’t even see your shadow. I can’t even hear my heart beat. The music creates an invisible existence….and I am lost in a sphere of rhythm…there was never a start and I will never see the end.Just when you thought no one knew the words…the MUSIC spells you out."

Movies:

Blow, Pulp Fiction, Fear and Loathing in LV, Ray, The Doors by Oliver Stone(of course), Forest Gump, Silence of the Lambs, American History X, Shawshank Redemption, Endless Summer, Big Wednesday, and North Shore (cheese surfing movies) Kalifornia, Snatch, E.T., Willie Wonka, and any Disney cartoon, and how can I forget.. STAR WARS. That's just pure brilliance!!

Television:

ESPN, Ab FAb, Six Feet Under,court TV and FOOTBALL! Miami Dolphins!! HUGE REDSOX fan too!! YANKEES SUCK! (just had to get that in there for Mike) but i don't even watch TV anymore... who has the time.. reality TV took over.. I can't take it anymore!

Books:

the WIne atlas, the great cheese book, the te of piglet, wilderness, no one here gets out alive, how to make love like a porn star by jenna.. that was, surprisingly, a GREAT book! I love true crime books. Read Amber Frey's book in less than a day. I wish I could say that I had a large collection of favorites...

Heroes:

MY son is MY hero! He saves me everyday!! Jaiden, you're a rockstar!! Mike.. you got me through the roughest time of my life.. i will always love you no matter what.. thanks for everything!

My Blog

i took a personality test.. interesting results

Your Five Factor Personality ProfileExtroversion:You have high extroversion.You are outgoing and engaging, with both strangers and friends.You truly enjoy being with people and bring energy into any s...
Posted by tonda on Mon, 03 Jul 2006 10:17:00 PST

inspired yet..?

Find What you Love...The following is the commencement speech delivered by Apple Computer co-founder, Steve Jobs, to Standford University's graduating class of 2005. Enjoy.Thank you. I'm honored to b...
Posted by tonda on Sun, 02 Jul 2006 12:06:00 PST

Booty CAll Contract!! :lol:

Monday, August 15th, 2005 Booty Call Contract This pre-booty call agreement (hereinafter referred to as the "Agreement") is entered into on the _____day of __________, 2005, by_______________________,...
Posted by tonda on Sat, 20 Aug 2005 04:39:00 PST