The following edicts are open for debate, modification, and general discussion. 1. Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk. 2. When you lose, don't lose the lesson. 3. Follow the 3 R's. Respect for self. Respect for others. Responsibility for all your actions. 4. Remember sometimes that not getting what you want is a wonderful stroke of luck. 5. Learn the rules so you know how to break them. 6. Don't let a little dispute injure a great relationship. 7. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it. 8. Spend some time alone every day. 9. Open arms to change, but don't let go of your values. 10. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer. 11. Live a good life, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you'll be able to enjoy it a second time. 12. A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life. 13. In conflicts with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don't bring up the past. 14. Share your knowledge. It's a way to achieve immortality. 15. Be gentle with the earth. 16. Once a year, go someplace you've never been before. 17. Remember that the best relationship is the one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other. 18. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it. 19. Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.