LOL ... let's get some of the negative and pet peeves out of the way right up front ....
if you tell me you are going to do something, please do it .... not following through is one of my biggest pet peeves of all time .... so if you say you are going to call me, call; if you say you are going to help me, help; if you say you can do something, do it; and so forth.
not following through shows not only a lack of respect, but a lack of total consideration ....
i really appreciate knowing exactly where i stand with people wandering around in the dark wondering drives me crazy
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i am making my life a very happy and full one and if i am not given the respect and consideration i deserve i'm outie
I am the mother of two GROWN children (20 and 21). They are my pride and joy. Motherhood is one thing that I know I did well. They both know the difference between right and wrong and have high moral standards -- even if they slip from time to time. They are my true heart and soul.
Acceptance is a true gift when it is given freely. Much like love it is one of those rare things to often put on a shelf in a crystal vase to be looked upon but never shared. I firmly believe that you should treat people the way you want to be treated -- even if that's what you don't get in return. Karma can be a bitch or your best friend. I'd much rather have her as an ally than enemy, so I try very hard to live my life without hurting others. I ask others to accept me with a similar regard.
A lie of omission is as bad as a blatant lie to me. If you ask me a question, be sure you are prepared for the answer.
I like the simple things in life:
laughter, a simple touch,
remembering what i like for dinner so you can surprise me and have it waiting,
a night in with a good dvd,
a drive around the lake,
easy going conversation, comfortable silences,
smiles that light up to someone's eyes,
the beauty of nature,
finding the hidden beauty in people
and helping it come out to shine,
kitties and puppies,
watching children playing from a distance,
swinging in the park or
playing like a child on the merry-go-round,
unexpected treats - an ice cream, a card or
a call just to say i was thinking about you,
even a sticky note on my windshield.
I've been told that i'm very easy to please,
but at times hard to satisify.
I'm also incredibly easy to entertain
and can be a very cheap date
although i certainly appreciate someone
who values me
enough to treat me to nice things on occasion
it really does make me feel
special and treasured.
i adore being able to cook for someone and
especially being able to spoil someone rotten
ask my kids cause
if i could do it for them i did
(even though there was a lot i couldn't,
but damn sure did give it my best effort).
i was raised to be
the perfect domestic goddess
and i revel in this, i'm fantastic at it,
nurturing comes 2nd nature to me
i do it without even thinking about it.
perhaps, this is why the little things
that someone does
mean so much to me.
so often people over look and
forget the little things,
or they take them for granted or
after a while stop them all together because they think they don't matter anymore.
they always matter, tis the little things,
the simple things that make my world go round.