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Why is spanking always wrong?Spanking is always an abuse of power. It is humiliating and it creates fear. A state of fear can only teach children to be distrustful and hide their true feelings. They learn from their parents that violence is the right way of resolving conflicts and that they are bad or unworthy and thus deserve correction. These children will soon forget why they were spanked. They will submit very quickly, but later in life, they will do the same to weaker persons. By spanking we teach violence.

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"It's okay to be kind to our children. It's okay to give them a feeling of abundance. Knowing that their own needs and wants are valued will only make them want to help others to meet their needs and wants too. Kindness begets kindness."************************************************** *******"When we adults think of children there is a simple truth that we ignore: childhood is not preparation for life; childhood is life. A child isn't getting ready to live; a child is living. No child will miss the zest and joy of living unless these are denied by adults who have convinced themselves that childhood is a period of preparation. How much heartache we would save ourselves if we would recognize children as partners with adults in the process of living, rather than always viewing them as apprentices. How much we could teach each other; we have the experience and they have the freshness. How full both our lives could be."

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To Spank or NOT to Spank.

by Elizabeth Pantley, author Perfect Parenting(Feel free to share this article with parents who need it.)In my house, my father had a belt hanging on a hook in the kitchen. It was a visible reminder t...
Posted by on Mon, 14 Jul 2008 03:39:00 GMT

"Every smack is a humiliation!"

  And even here in America, No-Spank laws are beginning to have a chance of passage in some state legislatures. Who is behind all this?   Any literate person on the face of the earth will g...
Posted by on Thu, 12 Jul 2007 11:09:00 GMT

Project No Spank

Everyone is familiar with the list of social maladies believed to be at the root of violent criminal behavior: poverty, discrimination, family breakdown, narcotics, gangs and easy access to deadly wea...
Posted by on Thu, 12 Jul 2007 11:04:00 GMT

Child Abuse: What is it???

Child Mistreatment, Child Abuse What is it? Humiliations, spankings and beatings, slaps in the face, betrayal, sexual exploitation, derision, neglect, etc. are all forms of mistreatment, because they ...
Posted by on Thu, 12 Jul 2007 10:55:00 GMT

By Alice Miller

Spanking is counterproductive and dangerous Why spankings, slaps, and even apparently harmless blows like pats on the hand are dangerous for a baby? They teach it violence. They destroy the absolute...
Posted by on Thu, 12 Jul 2007 10:23:00 GMT