Jay

Well actually, I’d rather you didn't... After a few minutes I’d probably get bored and want to talk about myself (If you don’t appreciate my sense of humor then we're not off to a good start my dear friend)....So about me, I'm 24 and moved to NJ about two years ago after graduating from college. I sort of am pretty spiritual at times, and see life as a process where we grow into something. I’m trying to grow into my skin more and becoming more comfortable with myself. This means I go out a lot (so yes, I go clubbing and dancing, and, no, sadly I don’t dance well- but I don’t embarrass myself either… use a tempered imagination), push myself to do new things, and see how I respond in situations. I love learning about new ways of thinking about issues and different ways of approaching them. With my friends, I find that I tend to compartmentalize them, where some I go out and go to the theatre with, others golfing, others go out and act like dumb 16 year olds (yes, really really dumb), and so on. It’s not about stereotyping them, but knowing what they like to do and where they feel comfortable, and matching that with what I like to do,