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Deryck

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About Me

Laid back, quiet, goofy, serious, and spontaneous all in one. People say I’m different…I just tell em, “I’m not scared to be different”. I’ve never drank, never smoked, and never will. That’s just my personal preference based on some generational curses that run through my family. I figure why drink and smoke when I’ve watched what it’s done to my family, knowing that I’m no better than them. It’s not worth it to me, and I refuse to put my wife and kids through the same things I had to go through. At the same time, I know I’m not better than anyone, and I don’t look down on anybody because I know it was only God’s grace that got me where I am today . I’ve had every excuse not to make it…from drugs, violence and dysfunction…to hand-me-down clothes and not having a REAL man in my life. But instead of using that as a crutch, I used it as motivation to feel my way through life and find out who I really am. I’ve learned to never sacrifice who you are because of your peers or surroundings…because your peers aint payin yo bills, and your peers aint goin to jail for you (I had to learn that the hard way). Don't get me wrong...I was a lil knuckle head at one time. I lived that life because I thought I had no other option, not because it was cool. But I was confused, I didnt know any better. And anybody who's had to live that life will tell you...It aint nuttin to brag about. I love to have a good time, but I’m not big on clubs and parties. I guess fun for me may be boring to some people. I love music, traveling, working out, learning new things, cooking for everybody at my house, singing ( I can’t sing though haha), freestylin (Tash you can’t see me!...nah, I can’t rap either), investing into my people helping them reach their dreams, and going to Church. Yeah, that’s right….lol…Goin to church. I’m not an angel, not by far…I have problems and issues just like everyone else. And I probably struggle with some of the same things that 99% of you do. But I’m tryin. I’m trying to better myself mentally, physically, financially, and spiritually. I’m learning to open my mind to new ideas, new goals, and new visions. I’m learning to take chances, trust, and step out on faith. And I’m learning how to be a REAL man, father, husband, and friend. Right now I’m on a mission to reset the trend. To let people know that it’s ok to be yourself. You don’t have to be thuggin to get respect. You don’t have to lie to get what you want. And you don’t have to be a ball player or a rapper to be successful. Most importantly, never forget where you come from. I'm actually home alot now, rehabing from a surgery I had a lil while back. So I'm still on my grind till I get back on that green. I have a non-profit organization called “Inspiring Minds”. It’s a youth and community empowerment program that teaches people to take the limits off of their dreams. I’m a product of my environment, but I didn’t allow my environment to direct my future. And if I can make it, I know you can. Much Luv
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People that are interest in: making money (legally) lol, investments, real estate, supporting or starting a non profit organization, networking, starting a business, or would like to invest in a non profit organization that supports youth

My Blog

I miss Yall...I.M. Wattup!!

Wassup I.M. Students, Volunteers, Supporters, and Staff. I just have something I need to get off my chest.It's Time to show the gifts that God has placed in you. Your success is only defined by the go...
Posted by on Tue, 12 Aug 2008 05:21:00 GMT

Someone asked me...Why are Men Scared of Good Women?

Most men have something buried inside of them called an ego.  It's a "THING" that says I have something to prove, it's a need for accomplishment, its pride, a need for independence, and a need fo...
Posted by on Wed, 28 Nov 2007 03:44:00 GMT

A Black Woman’s Smile

Please Watch...It will open your eyes http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rPBH57BWhpE  
Posted by on Fri, 23 Nov 2007 21:39:00 GMT

THAT IT

"That IT" You ever had someone ask you, "What do you look for in a significant other?"  I don't know about you, but I get asked that all the time.  And each time it seems like I give a dif...
Posted by on Sat, 19 May 2007 14:51:00 GMT

Just Like You

..:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" />  Just Like You   How is it that I'm just like you? My walk, my talk, we even have the same point of views. You've on...
Posted by on Tue, 10 Apr 2007 06:14:00 GMT

Inspiring Minds Community Award Banquet

Wassup Everyone, I'm checking in again to let you know about another successful event.  Last Sunday, February 11th, Inspiring Minds held its Inaugural Community Award Banquet at DiLucia's Banque...
Posted by on Sun, 18 Feb 2007 19:48:00 GMT

Inspiring Minds Mentorship Program

Happy Holidays to everyone,   I just wanted to update yall on another successful event with my non profit Inspiring Minds.  Last Friday we rewarded some kids with a pizza party.  T...
Posted by on Mon, 04 Dec 2006 13:36:00 GMT

One of them days

Today is just one of them days.  One of them days that lets you know that you're still human...you still have feelings...and life can be tough sometimes.  For some reason today, I'mma littl...
Posted by on Mon, 03 Jul 2006 11:50:00 GMT

TIME

6/12/06 10:00 am   Aint it crazy how fast life passes by?  Its like that feeling you get when you missed the bus.  You wonder who was riding, what you would have seen, and how your life...
Posted by on Mon, 12 Jun 2006 13:14:00 GMT

Everyone Can't Be in Your FRONT ROW

Everyone Can't Be in Your FRONT ROW Life is a theater so invite your audiences carefully. Not everyone is holy enough and healthy enough to have a FRONT ROW seat in our lives. There are some people in...
Posted by on Sun, 04 Jun 2006 21:11:00 GMT