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Apotropaist

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About Me

It doesn't matter really what I say about myself so much as what outsiders have said. Here are some of their words: wide range of knowledge, hard worker, sincere, very patient, kind heart, so pleasant, willing to help others, great guy, will go out of his way to help anyone at any time, solid, not wishy-washy, a thinker, willing to take the chance to learn & teach, a true team player, best bookworm in town, a walking talking dictionary, genuine genius, ability to multi-task is astounding.
Who am I to question their judgment? I'm merely happy that my character cause so many to hold me in high esteem. Most people's self-image isn't the same as how other people see them, but if you believe in some of the popular personality typing systems, you can potentially know a lot about me by learning the following, doubtless highly accurate facts:
Astrologically, I'm a Cancer, with Leo Rising and a Scorpio moon (spooky!) Mercury and Venus are in Gemini, Mars in Virgo, and I forget the rest of it, as it doesn't matter too much.
If you're a Myers-Briggs devotee, I'm am ISTJ (Guardian-Inspector).
If your into the Enneagram, I'm a Four (Individualist).
Overall, I'd say I'm not your normal sort of guy. I've always been attracted to quirky things, which include people.

My Interests

Lots, but the top 5 would be: reading, writing, RPGs, music, and organizing stuff. I've started getting into working out and hiking again (as I did so many years ago), and I recently bought a classic car on eBay which I'm going to restore as a project over time. It's a classic pimpmoble, and when it's done I'll put up pictures of it here.

I'd like to meet:

Ralph McTell and Laura Linney--but not at the same time.

Music:

No one in the world has the same tastes as me. "Eclectic" doesn't even begin to describe them. I like almost all genres but am particular about specific artists and even songs from each one. Let's just say the iPod and iTunes were invented for guys like me, who like to tinker endlessly with my playlists to get them just right. I've got seven days of continuous music on my iTunes, so you can see how it might be hard for a fellow to list favorites. However, every so often in my blog I list the top 25 most-played stuff as reported by iTunes, so that gives you some idea of what I like.

Movies:

Way too many to list, but in general I like flashy smart movies--for example, most James Cameron films. My current favorite is "Raising Arizona," but if you ask me tomorrow I might say something else entirely. I've also been watching old gangster movies from the 30's and pre-Hayes code movies from the 20's on TCM. Yet there's always time for old favorites, like Coen brothers movies, Sam Raimi films, etc.

Television:

Not too much, but I do like several Britcoms, chiefly at the moment "Father Ted." That thing is a hoot! I've also been watching the Kathy Griffin show on Bravo and several crime shows on Court TV, all via the magic of a Cox DVR.

Books:

Way, WAY too many to list. I'm a few sanity points away from going into full-tilt bibliomania. I own somewhere over 5000 books--I don't know exactly how many. I've read probably half of those and I should have the other half read in the next 2-3 years, assuming I don't buy any more (yeah, right). As it is, I'm always reading multiple books simultaneously (anywhere from 4-12) and cycle between them every few chapters to keep it interesting.

Heroes:

I always like the Marvel ones, particularly Iron Man, more than the DC ones, but I do have a soft spot in my heart for The Spectre (Jim Corrigan). Seriously, though, I don't really have anyone I look up to as a hero. I have idols, but they aren't the same thing, and frequently it can be disappointing to meet one's idols because often the fantasy does not survive the reality. Remind me to tell you about my meeting with one of the Runaways, one time...

My Blog

Another Weird Dream

I've been having more weird dreams. Here's the fragment I have left from one of last night's:I had been re-arranging the house after selling all of Jennifer's stuff for the estate when she came back....
Posted by Apotropaist on Wed, 31 Oct 2007 02:32:00 PST

Thoughts On Death & Change

I have been thinking more lately on the various changes that have come into my life now that Jennifer has passed away. I don't know if everything I'm thinking or feeling is easily put into words, but...
Posted by Apotropaist on Sun, 28 Oct 2007 07:44:00 PST

Dorrie Moving Again

Dorried called me today from Goleta. She's apparently on her way back to L.A. for something that had to do with Rudy, the guy whose Social Security she was in charge of. But her van broke down and s...
Posted by Apotropaist on Fri, 28 Sep 2007 12:28:00 PST

Sixth Letter To Jennifer

Dear Jennifer,It has been six months since you died, and there is so much that I wish I could tell you in person. So many things have happened since I last wrote you, some public and some private, th...
Posted by Apotropaist on Tue, 25 Sep 2007 03:36:00 PST

Dorrie Called Again

Apparently she is in Eureka now, and I'm not sure why. But she wanted to know what was going on with the estate, and I told her. I wish I could go into more details, but I can't right now. Suffice ...
Posted by Apotropaist on Sun, 09 Sep 2007 01:35:00 PST

Tax Reprieve

Well, I just checked the form I filed back in April and it says it grants a SIX month extension, not FOUR months as I assumed, so I still have 2 months. Wheee! That'll give me time to do a better jo...
Posted by Apotropaist on Wed, 15 Aug 2007 01:32:00 PST

Finally!!!

I finally got my letters of administration today, about 3 FRIGGING MONTHS after my court date. What a long and frustrating experience it's been, and I'm not even to the difficult stage yet! Tomorrow...
Posted by Apotropaist on Wed, 15 Aug 2007 05:59:00 PST

Dorrie Mania

Well, I got to find out what Dorrie wanted yesterday because she called three more times today. I called her back and talked to her convict boyfriend Paul, who wasn't real happy because he kept talki...
Posted by Apotropaist on Mon, 06 Aug 2007 11:55:00 PST

Dorrie & Three Things

Dorrie called FOUR times last night and left a message while I was out, but didn't say what exactly was on her mind, only that I needed to call her when I got a chance. I did so when I returned but s...
Posted by Apotropaist on Sun, 05 Aug 2007 03:25:00 PST

More Dorrie Info

She called again and wanted to find out if Uncle Donald had read her letter yet. I told her he said he hadn't, but that he would do so. She seemed upset and asked what he did all day, like watching ...
Posted by Apotropaist on Wed, 18 Jul 2007 02:58:00 PST