about me..
name: elbert
age: 24
gender: male
location: north augusta, south carolina, u.s.a
astrological sign: capricorn
religion: christian
design experience: 5 years
familiar programs: photoshop, paintshop, real producer, notepad, and ws_ftp
i am a laid back, fun-loving person. i'm very silly at times to most people would say that i'm easy to get along with. i like playing video games, designing on the computer, sports whether it be watching or playing (basketball, football), going to the movies, and watching sportscenter (which is most men's favorite channel). i'm an electrician by trade and i am involved in an apprenticeship program that allows me to work as i learn the trade. i am also a student @ augusta tech. i am also a parent. i have a 9 month old son that is the love of my life.
i'm about 6'1 or 6'2 and i weigh approximately 240 lbs. i have an athletic build..basically your average football player. i'm light-skinned and i have hazel eyes. i keep a short haircut and i try to be neat at all times..but i have my days. i'm into baggy jeans and cargo pants (the khaki kind) and i like polo shirts. i could be labeled a pretty boy...those that know me would tell you that i am one. i consider it a compliment..it's good when others notice that you're conscious of your appearance. i have both my ears pierced. i don't currently have any tattoos but i want some.
my personality is just like anyone elses. i'm just as complex as the next person. i'm usually laid back, cool, calm, and collected. i dont like to complain and i'll pretty much go with the flow. pretty easy to get along and usually in a good mood. i'm silly like i said before, so a lot of times you'll find me tryin to be funny or not tryin to be funny and people will be laughin. i've heard that i'mretarded. i'm all about happiness and being cheerful because i feel that life is just too short. i'm quiet but i talk when i have something to say. i'm outspoken and opinionated.. maybe a lil too much at times and i'm stubborn but we all have our faults. i'm the type thas gonna be straight up when you ask me a question and i'll tell you exactly how i feel about you..whether it's mean or not. my mom has always taught me to treat people the way you wanna be treated and i expect the same. as i previously stated..i'm usually in a good mood but i have my days just everyone else when i really just dont feel like being bothered. i'm the type that if i'm in a bad mood..i'll try my hardest to stay away from people. i'm not good with expressing my feelings when something is bothering me so i tend to shut down. other than that i think i'm a nice guy, capricorns are said to be self sacraficing and willing to give whatever they have to others..but please dont get it twisted. i'm not gonna take any shyt off of anybody and i will not be run over and taken advantage of. if you mistake my kindness for stupidity then you will be in for a surprise. i'm the same way when it comes to the people i love.
i cant stand liars. i dont think anything could be worse than a liar. i mean we're all grown here so why do we as a people feel the urge to tell lies. the bad thing is that people will lie about anything..just to lie. why is that?
she has to be... intelligent, honest, caring, dependable, sexy, ambitious, independent, religious, funny, affectionate, mature, open-minded, level headed, stylish, spontaneous, and sophisticated. maybe that's a lil too much to ask but that's what i'm looking for in my other half. i feel that these are all qualities that i possess so it's only right that if somebody is gettin these qualities from me that i get the same in return. when i say intelligent i dont mean just book smart..i want a woman that uses common sense. i need my lady to be honest..there's no point whatsoever in having a relationship with somebody if you know in your heart that you cant trust em. no matter how much you love em and no matter how many times you forgive em you'll never forget. you'll always have in the back of your mind that they've done you wrong and if you arent careful it'll make you bitter. i need somebody to care for me and care about me...somebody to hug me and tell me it'll be ok when i'm down. she has to be a dependable woman..i mean i really hate it when somebody makes a promise that they know they cant keep. i dont like when people say they're gonna do something and then it never happens. she has to be sexy. she really really has to be sexy. i need somebody that'll keep my attention. she doesnt have to be halle berry but i dont want her to be busted either. i'm attracted to all types of women but i have a weakness for caramel complexions. i like pretty toes and nice legs. i like big hips and a small waist. i like big booties and nice breasts. she has to have goals in life..somebody that knows exactly what she wants and knows what she has to do to go get it. i want her to be funny..i love to laugh and i love to joke around. she has to be able to take a joke and she has to have a pretty good sense of humor. i need affection. i'm a very very affectionate person. i'm a passionate kisser and i need somebody that it just a passionate. i love to kiss. i love to touch and i love being touched. she has to be mature. i am only interested in the grown and sexy. okay if i'm out with the fellas and we go to the club or just somewhere in general...it doesnt mean that we're going to find females. it doesnt mean that i'm cheating on you if i have female friends...attractive female friends. men are able to have platonic friendships with women. lol..it's not always on purpose but at the same time they do exist. i have a guilty conscience and if i were to do such a thing i'd more than likely end up tellin you about it. i mean i'd expect the same if i was getting cheated on. i know i wouldnt like it much but i'd respect you for being honest. i dont want that ghetto chick that is always down to fight another chick if she over steps her boundaries but at the same time it's understood that she wont take any shyt off of anybody..including me. i want a woman to be there and tell me when i'm doing good..let me know when she's proud of me and at the same time when i fuck up she'll tell me about myself. i know i ask for a lot but to me this is what makes a perfect woman for me. i mean yea i'm sure she'll have her faults just like i have mine but that's what relationships are about. you learn to get used to other people and you learn to accept each other's differences. is this too much to ask?
i think that i've said enough about myself for you to get a pretty good understanding of the type of person i am and i can't believe that you actually read all that but i appreciate it.