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MT ‘ism…
The best show of accomplishment is a life well lived, well traveled and well loved paired with success via your very own strength and independence… otherwise you’re as simple as the rest.. sadly unsubstantiated. And to be unsubstantiated is like gifting yourself to weakness, bow and all. Live fully. Laugh uncontrollably. Love unconditionally. Be phenomenal, spontaneous and all things fabulous. As a lady you should speak like a lady, dress like a lady.. have your very own identity, style, class and *always smell delicious. You should also work hard, be confident, self sufficient and never be tolerant of disrespect or negative people. Shine bright. Soar high. Strive big… and do it all with a sexy smile. Sexy smiles are hard to come by… if ya got it, maximize it’s power… trust me; it’s a powerful thing. Swagger and snazz aren't taught, you’re just born with it.

I gotta attribute my drive, my constant optimism and bright eyed momentum to my mother. She's one hell of a woman and if I'm blessed to be half the woman she is, I'll take it in a heart beat. I definitely didn't have a "normal" childhood. My mother sought out to explore the world.... to maximize her dreams through her raw talent as a writer. She loved to write, still does.. and as a result growing up I lived with a suitcase by my side, I was her lil sidekick.. trying my best to be that driving force to help tackle hurdles.. looking for that ONE opportunity where she'd finally get that chance to do what she loved on a steady basis and also generate an income. In a one parent household we didn't have much money, but she was resourceful and determined. She wrote on a freelance basis and we moved often. By the time I was through 8th grade I had been to nearly 20 schools spanning all across the country from Portland , Oregon to Miami and even overseas where I spent several years living in Spain . It was never glamorous, and we def scraped by, so long as we got by. Some people criticized her for the instability she was instilling in me, yet it only made her strength as a mother more solid. She was my best friend, and though I was young the criticism still managed to trickle down to my ears.. and for that I refused to prove people right. She spoke to me often, always said the right things, always believed in me.. and showed me a tremendous amount of love.. and that kept me straight. I guess school was my outlet. It came easy... and I excelled.Years later, 28 schools later.. and a laundry list of countries we bounced in and out of under my belt... I can def say it was an experience of a lifetime, and I ate a whole lotta humble pie.. I guess I just want to own my high expectations. I refuse to live in someone else's shadow.. or be fueled by someone else's dreams.. and for that I'm not slowing down anytime soon. MT

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My Blog

Upon Reflection....

I thank you for your unwelcoming presence& for stubbornly penetrating my life& for attempting to crush my sprit and all the dreams that went along with it. I thank you for not succumbing to my strengt...
Posted by on Wed, 14 Jan 2009 16:51:00 GMT

Abuelita Anita....

...I recently stumbled on some old pieces I had written years ago.   This one got me.   it's a poem I wrote on a napkin when I was 22.   The funny thing is I can remember the emo...
Posted by on Sun, 23 Nov 2008 22:47:00 GMT

For what its worth....

Today my mother told me (*half jokingly) when you LOVE a man completely (*half dead serious) you lose your emotionally stability and focus. For that reason she suggested never loving a man whole heart...
Posted by on Fri, 24 Oct 2008 14:55:00 GMT

Smile Im on camera...

They say you haven't lived a full life unless you've (at some point in time) been a video-ho. Yes, I said a video-ho. And before I'm asked who the distinguished "they" is, I'd like to say it's absolut...
Posted by on Tue, 30 Sep 2008 09:17:00 GMT

Ink to paper...

Ink to paper... haven't done it in a while. The real shit.... sitting down, no pressure... no backspace, no edits.... just candid, raw... REAL. Can't even say I'm doing it now... fingers to keyboard j...
Posted by on Wed, 20 Aug 2008 13:43:00 GMT

One wk in NYC and I already have a crush&.

   ..  thankfully in the only one wk I've been here,  I haven't had any startling realizations that I made a mistake. Quite the contrary I've been filled with this incredible sense...
Posted by on Thu, 06 Mar 2008 12:39:00 GMT

Shes moving to NYC... whaaaat?!!??

We all have a story... and in this case, there are 4. Naturally you think... how can all 4 of them possible be making this HUGE move together? How can 4 individual people all seem so willing to pick u...
Posted by on Mon, 18 Feb 2008 22:05:00 GMT

Every woman NEEDS to read this!

PAY CLOSE ATTENTION LADIES!!!OVARIAN CANCER IS A SILENT KILLERAfter going through my ordeal and looking back, it frightens me to recognize how silent and deadly this disease actually is. I was fortuna...
Posted by on Wed, 30 Jan 2008 01:41:00 GMT

the "c" word

Cancer.....what a hideous word... I didn't want to go too much into detail because I had hope and faith it wouldn't be the "c" word... that they'd open me up- and say, "surprise, its just a tumor... w...
Posted by on Thu, 17 Jan 2008 16:19:00 GMT

The latest chapter of my story....

"So, how have you been?"...... it's funny when we get asked this, and on the spot- our natural instinct is to say... "Good, thanks for asking"... punto y final.  But when is it OK to say.... NOT ...
Posted by on Fri, 11 Jan 2008 10:49:00 GMT