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a shi li

About Me

i can't decide what i want to be when i grow up, either a race car driver, a member of hell's angels, or a gun slinger. i hate these things, i feel so much pressure to charm you with my wit, but i fail and end up sulking in the corner somewhere. so if you're curious, ask. I adopted a cute lil' Highlander fetus from Fetusmart! Hooray RU!

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My Blog

a real blog!

So I have a real blog now.  Read it and give lots of love! http://ashili.blogspot.com/
Posted by on Thu, 09 Oct 2008 11:40:00 GMT

daddy

as you know, my father was diagnosed with esophageal cancer. last tuesday he had an esophagectomy, they removed 80% of his esophagus and several surrounding lymph nodes. it was a 6 hour procedure in ...
Posted by on Fri, 20 Jun 2008 00:02:00 GMT

almost there

I know that it's been a while, and many of you have asked, which I appreciate, so I figured I'd drop a line to let you know how my daddy is doing.  This is his last week of radiation, last week w...
Posted by on Mon, 05 May 2008 05:09:00 GMT

7 pounds!

My daddy has gained 7 pounds!  He is finally at a point where he can eat again, the treatments have shrunk his tumor.  Today he started radiation, and that hasn’t started to bother him...
Posted by on Tue, 01 Apr 2008 20:29:00 GMT

girls should never

have to see their daddies sick and frail, to find that their heroes are fallible.  
Posted by on Mon, 24 Mar 2008 05:45:00 GMT

easter trip

So I came home for Easter since my Daddy wasn’t able to make the trip down to see me, which was a major bummer.  The hardest thing is being here.  I know he’s sick, but seeing it...
Posted by on Sat, 22 Mar 2008 22:58:00 GMT

Uhm....

Daddy just completed his second chemo treatment.  He’s doing better than the first go around, but he’s still weak.  He has gained three pounds, which made my month.  So it s...
Posted by on Thu, 13 Mar 2008 20:51:00 GMT

Week 3 of Chemo

Daddy is now getting his treatments back home.  He has found a doctor that will administer Little Buddy's plan, so he doesn't have to drive to Nashville except for check-ins and surgery. So Dad ...
Posted by on Wed, 05 Mar 2008 19:07:00 GMT

chemo

So yesterday, Daddy started chemo.  That was miserable for all involved, except maybe him.  We arrived at the Vanderbilt Cancer Clinic at 11:30 CST.  We left at 6:30.  They do not ...
Posted by on Thu, 21 Feb 2008 11:53:00 GMT

daddy update

    Well we're all hanging out in the hotel room in Nashville.  Daddy is burning Mom and I up since he freezes to death.  He had his porta-cath put in today.  Going to th...
Posted by on Mon, 18 Feb 2008 19:11:00 GMT