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My full name is Melanie Theresa Chryczak. I was born on August 13,1974 in Tampa Florida. I am of Italian, Irish and Ukranian descent. I am the proud mother of 3 amazing sons. Their names are Julian Michael age 12, Noah Avery age 8 and Luke Anthony age 7. They are by far the greatest thing that has ever happened to me. To see their handsome little mugs you can view the slide show a bit down and to your left or go to my pictures and watch them grow. I met their father Eric in December of 1994 while on a trip to Kalamazoo Michigan where I was visiting my biological mother for Christmas. Eric and I became friends right away. Our 1st date was one of the best nights of my life. Eric and I became enseperable and all of a sudden I didn't want to go back to Florida. (and I didn't) until we moved back together several months later. On St Pat's day 1995 Eric and I learned that we were going to be parents for the first time. Both of us being the tender age of only 20 years old, we where naturally a little scared but Eric was awesome. Unlike most guys his age Eric became totally dedicated and proved to be more then responsible. Pulling a 4.0 and on the Dean's list he made the painstaking decision to drop out and go from part time to working a full time job to support me and his soon to be son. We married 4 years later on September 19th 1999. 10 years after our 1st date, a few houses, a couple cars, a business we owned, a couple weddings, a few funerals, 10,000 laughs, 12,000 tears, 3 beautiful sons and some marrital problems that we just couldn't seem to work thru later, our marriage ended. I was crushed I did not want a divorce but Eric had made up his mind and I could not change it. Though we are divorced Eric and I are very close and he is still one of the most incredible people I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. He is and always has been an Awesome father to our boys. I am not opposed to reconciling So remember Eric you know where I am if you ever reconsider. I believe in God and I am proud to admit it. I do not believe in getting vengeance on people. Life is too short to waste the time and energy conjuring up ways to get back at someone who has wronged you and besides God's punishment will be far worse than anything that anyone of us down here could do to one another. There's one thing you can always be certain of and that is "WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND". God may not answer as quickly as we'd like him to but he's always right on time. My determination regarding weather or not a person becomes my friend does not stem from my judging them for who they are, how they live or what they have done thrughout their life. It solely depends on how they treat me. We can not change the past but as long as you respect me and are considerate of my feelings and beliefs I will without a doubt be one of the best friends you could have. I genuinely care about the well being of others. I am a very kind, caring and giving person who loves unconditionally without judgment or prejudice to people's faults and weeknesses. I believe in giving people the benefit of the doubt. Everyone desrves a 2nd chance. Many pepople would not be where they are today if someone had not given them one. I am outgoing and outspoken. I have a tendency to be very blunt at times and I am not afraid to tell it like it is. Sometimes this has gotten me into trouble and sometimes it didn't make a difference either way, but more often than not keepin it real had a positive outcome and I do believe in keepin it real. However I do not agree with saying things intentionally just to hurt or disrespect others. I like a person with a sense of humor and enjoy showing off mine. I have been told by many that I am a smart cookie. Growing up I attended school moreover for it's appeal as a social event rather than a place of learning and study. I suck at math but I can read and spell with perfection. By 3rd grade It was brought to my mother's attention that I was reading at college level. With the exception of math most subjects came easy to me. I never had to study hard and still always managed to get good grades. I have a way with words therefore I love to write and speak publicly. I am Awesome at poetry and I have a book of poems that I have been working on since I was like 9 years old. By now it's probably equal to 4 or 5 books if I were to get them published. Like many I am the product of a disfunctional family. My childhood was not what people would consider to be a normal one. I had to grow up very fast but even still, a lot of people are proud to see that despite my disfunctional upbringing I turned out a lot better than most thought I would. I have a wacky, nutty, totally shot out( at times) little sister named Melissa. She is 17 months younger than I and we are very close. Throughout my childhood into my early teens I was very active in local theater and performing arts. I have always liked to sing. My vocal octive is that of a 3rd seat soprano. If I weren't passed the age limit I would try out for American Idol. I love to play the piano. Blessed with the gift of a musical ear I never had a lesson in my whole life but I can play just about anything and I love to share my talent with anyone who has a love for the piano. I'm very into interior design. While all my friends were reading 17 and Cosmo I was checkin out the latest issue of Archetectual Digest. I love a clean and well kept home. I can be a little obsessive compulsive when it comes to cleaning my house. I have ZERO tolerence when it comes to a filthy home. I enjoy traveling and like going to museums, arts & crafts fairs, Home & garden shows, tatoo expos, car shows, out to dinner and to the movies... etc..etc.. I'm not a huge fan of sports but I do like going to live sporting events now and then. Especially if it's a hockey game. GO RED WINGS!! That's Eric's dream team LOL...I never pass up the opportunity to spend a day at the beach or going out on the boat with my friends. Thanks Kim and Rob for all the awesome Sundays!!! I am An amazing cook and I love to do so. I also enjoy photography. I love to shoot pictures of everything and I am a total ham when it comes to getting my own picture taken. I keep my camera loaded and in my purse at all times. I'd be lying if I said I work out all the time (I don't) but staying in shape and being healthy are very important to me. I have been told by many people that I have an amazing figure for having 3 kids and I think I do Too. Amazingly I have NO STREATCHMARKS!!! Hey, If I didn't look in the mirror everyday to see it I wouldn't believe it either. Must be good genes I guess. My sis has 3 kids and she doesen't have any either. We are very lucky!! When in a relationship I dedicate myself 100% to my man. Remember beside every good man stands a strong woman. I am very sensetive and affectionate. I love to cuddle and I love to give massages. I see nothing wrong with being a total freak in the bed as long as it's with the one you love. I believe in honesty at all times and I have ZERO tolerence for cheating. I refuse to be 2nd best under any circumstances. If you feel the need to cheat then we no longer belong together. I have NO REGRETS. That includes U Brian. No matter how messed up you are toward me I will always have love for you Boo. Like a lot of women I can be moody and bitchy, very stubborn, difficult and at times hard to please but for the most part I'm a pretty fun and free spirited person that likes to have a good time and make people smile. I love to be loved.....I love everyone. unfortunately sometimes love hurts...A LOT...and while it is true that at some point it will almost always hurt you in some way or another to love someone....it NEVER EVER HURTS TO BE LOVED........ If you made it this far, didn't get borred and lose interest 1/2 way through and where mentally strong enough to actually read this whole "all about me" YOU ARE SOMEBODY THAT I COULD LOVE....LOL My name is Melanie and I am truly one AWESOME GIRL!!!! xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox
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