~RAIZA~ U TALK IT! I LIVE IT!

Some people BELIEVE that HOLDING ON and HANGING IN ther are SIGNS of STRENGTH, but there are TIMES in LIFE when it takes MUCH MORE STRENGTH to just LET GO......""In the End, WE will REMEMBER not the WORDS of our ENEMIES,but the SILENCE of our FRIENDS." Don't WORRY about the PEOPLE in your PAST;there's a REASON why they didn't make it to your FUTURE. ""U KNOW IT, HATERZ ALL DAY EVERYDAY....BUT I'M STILL LIVIN N THEY STILL HATIN!!!"But let me tell you that if a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending... compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you..a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary..not supplementary. Dating is fun... even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.