let me start with the people that i dont want to meet...
i dont want to meet people who only goes for physical appearance. i have met a lot of people in person from the net, and the minute that they saw me, i can see in their faces that they wish they where somewhere else. i know im not photogenic. i know im "FAT". i never hid my face to anyone and neither did i lied to anyone that i have a size problem.
i dont want to meet blood sucking, pocket draining, emotionaly draining people. im not rich. im just one of the regular joe's that work for their living. from time to time, i be generous to treat a friend for dinner, lunch or a movie. but dont expect and especially dont throw hints to me of paying for your expenses just so you could be with me. i work hard for my money and so should you. if i have to treat you everytime, most of the time or too often, then i will consider that as protituting your friendship with me. i dont think that protituting friendship is actual friendship.
i dont want to meet anyone who will not be true to me. if you dont like me, just say so and be gone. i dont want to waste my time trying to decipher your actions. if you want to go away from me as far as possible, just say so and ill be glad to go the other way, away from you.
i think that being "too busy" or "dont have cellphone load" is an excuse not to answer back with in a week or a month. i know that you can spare a few minutes from saturday or sunday just to reply back to me if your really "too busy". or you can always text back your answer when you already "have your cellphone load". to most of them, they know my email add, my mobile number and im part of their "friends list". so if you can access the internet and post pics, answer surveys, forward bulletins and many more, then maybe you can spare sometime to send me a mail so i know that your still alive.
i dont want pretentious people. i definitely hate liars or pretending that your still my friend. im annoyed by people who cant stand with what they have said or make a commitment. so if you dont like what you see, just disappear, delete me from your phonebook, from your friends list and ignore me. i can take a hint!!!! but its much better if you could learn to say it out loud so i dont have to bother exerting some effort trying to contact or communicate with you. but i know that it is way tooooo much for your peasize common sense to comprehend and do.
i dont like being played upon or playing cat and mouse just so we could meet. if you tell me to meet you there, then stay put until i get there. dont you dare to move farther away when im almost near at our meeting place. if you want to move, then call me up! dont text me! i will start to hate it when im there only to find out that you decided move at the last minute then telling me that you sent a text message. heres a hint, text messages dont pester people to answer their phones. call me up if your planning to move from our meeting place.
i dont like to wait for people too long. if you're late, i can wait for you for up to 30min. but dont expect me to still be in a good mood after 30min especially when im hungry. it will be "by grace" if im still there after 30min without notice, and it will be "luck" if im still there after an hour of you being late.
if your not any of these people, then we will get along just fine. because im sure that most of you out there dont like these kind of people also.