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The One

i get to watch lauryn hill this week!!

About Me


let's see... I was born in the year of the fire snake, but I feel most at peace when I'm near the water. When I was in 7th grade, I was the Battleship Champion of San Diego. In high school, I was the Prom King and won Mr. Sweetheart 3 years in a row; looking back, I realize it was everyone's way of telling me I was a big, fat (___)sapien. I once rode an elephant, on his neck, through the jungles of Thailand. and then one time in band camp... I have the worst navigation skills and have been known to call several times for directions... "ok, so where was I supposed to turn again?" I am obsessed with the sacred heart and the white dove because my family name is Paloma... which means dove; my first and only tattoo includes those images. Ironically, I'm really scared of needles and have fainted at least twice while blood was being drawn. I'm really embarrassed I just admitted that.
I have one of the loudest grunts on a tennis player; loud enough to drive people on the next court to stop playing. For some reason, doing bikram yoga for 1.5 hours in 110 degree room relaxes me. I never watch what I eat and eat at all hours of the day... my favorite old school McDonald's order was a #2 plain.
I take a lot of pictures and sometimes, a few actually turn out nice. I'm totally a momma's boy.. totally. Sometimes, as I'm running through my daily routine, I stop in bewilderment... "Am I really friggin' 30?"
I believe that there is no such thing as "not enough time..." when you love something, there is all the time in the world. I'm a late night owl that still manages to catch the worm. I'm an idiot savant, but a savant nonetheless... I never judge a book by its cover and know that all photos can be photoshopped! I usually "google" people when I first date them. Growing up, I hated my middle name Tristan... and I often sleep with my contacts on!!

My Interests

"only through constant annihilation of self can we find that which is truly indestructible."- pema chodron

"let me say, at the risk of sounding ridiculous, that the true revolutionary is guided by great feelings of love." -che

"viva la vida!" -frida

"i wish i could organize freedom, how scandinavian of me" -bjork

I'd like to meet:

rebels, iconoclasts, black sheeps, ground breakers, innovators, risk takers, unconventional thinkers, believers, music lovers, spiritualists, revolutionaries...and everyone in between..

MY PHOTOGRAPHY:

Music:

who im listening to right now: bjork, SIA, kate nash, l boogie, wyclef, manu chao, the pipettes, common, alicia, edith piaf, p!nk, badu, maroon 5, justin, aaliyah, esthero, k-os, kanye, aretha, britney, MIA, mary j, morrissey, sade, robin thicke, amy winehouse, fela kuti, the roots

Movies:

No Country for Old Men, Mi Vie En Rose, Holiday, Pan's Labyrinth, The Beach, Little Miss Sunshine, Quincenera, Mysterious Skin, Transamerica, Devil Wears Prada, Blossoming of Maximo Oliveros, Born Into Brothels, Brokeback Mountain, RENT, King Kong, Crash, Memento, Paris is Burning, Lost Boys, Outsiders, Stand By Me, Bride and Prejudice, Willy Wonka, Fear & Loathing in Las Vegas, Drugstore Cowboy, Clash of the Titans, Color Purple, The Notebook, Pumpkin, It's a Wonderful Life, Women, Dreams, Anniversary Party, The Gods Must be Crazy, Mi Vida Loca, Zoolander, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, The Shining, Beaches, Gia, Bound, Chasing Amy, Ray, Can't Buy Me Love, Sixteen Candles, Lucas, AI, Alice in Wonderland, Secret of NIMH, Spanglish, The Sweetest Thing, 50 First Dates, Amelie, Macho Dancer, Frida, Pinero, Jesus Christ Superstar, Little Shop of Horrors, America, Labyrinth, Princess Bride and the Lord of the Rings

Television:

My Life on the D List, ANTM, Top Chef, Avatar: The Last Airbender, Charm School, American Idol, So You Think You Can Dance, Project Runway, Planet Earth, Man vs. Wild, Entourage, Little People Big World, Intervention, Workout, Prison Break, Def Poetry Jam, Ugly Betty.. and sometimes I nee a 'lil OPRAH

Books:

When Things Fall Apart, Five People You Meet in Heaven, The Missing Piece/ Where the Sidewalk Ends (Shel Silverstein), anything by Dr. Seuss, Me Talk Pretty One Day, Naked (David Sedaris), The Prophet (Kahlil Gibran), Alchemist & By the River Piedra I Wept (Paolo Coelho), City of Night (John Rechy), Before Night Falls (Reinaldo Arenas), Motorcycle Diaries (Che Gueverra), All About Love (bell hooks), Roots, The Little Prince, Picture of Dorian Gray, Dante's Inferno, Nickel and Dimed, El Filibusterismo, Noli me Tangere (Dr. Jose Rizal), I- Rigoberta Menchu...

Heroes:

mom. storm. darna. serena williams. (in that order)

My Blog

Power of Aloha

I only had one mission last Friday, get myself from Orlando to Honolulu to attend one of my best friend's wedding on Saturday. 13 hours of flying, I connecting flight... sounds simple enough, right?W...
Posted by The One on Mon, 12 May 2008 11:56:00 PST

Best of L.A.

Yes, yes y'all... the rumblings and comments are true. I am moving back to San Francisco. In fact, the movers came today... and in one full swoop (which consisted of 7 men and 4 hours of labor) they...
Posted by The One on Wed, 16 Apr 2008 11:54:00 PST