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Truth is I don't really think people can change, I mean at the end of the day YOU are who YOU are and its probably who you've ALWAYS BEEN...LMFatAO!!!
I have been with the love of my life for 9 years and, we made it official in 2008. We have been so blessed with the love and friendship that we have. I married my soul mate, my best friend, life can't get any sweeter...For hearing my thoughts, understanding my dreams and being my best friend...for filling my life with joy and loving me with no end, is why I love you!

I have been blessed with the greatest family ever. I have 3 beautiful kids that have made my life worth living. I have the greatest husband any woman could ask for. My family is my whole world and no one will ever be able to tear us apart. I love my family-nothing else matters. I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman...Knowing is intimacy. Intimacy takes trust and faith.

"Think like a queen. A queen is not afraid to fail. Failure is another steppingstone to greatness. I am the master of my fate; I am the captain of my soul."
"The child must know that he is a miracle, that since the beginning of the world there hasn't been, and until the end of the world there will not be, another child like him."
My greatest accomplishment, and my greatest pride & joy are my children. They truly are my greatest success. They have inspired me in all aspects of my life.
Most collectors collect tangibles.As a quotation collector, I collect wisdom, life, invisible beauty, souls alive in ink."Persistence is the twin sister of excellence. One is a matter of quality, the other, a matter of time." "The future is not something we enter, it is something we create." "Living with integrity means: Not settling for less than what you know you deserve in your relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speaking your truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in ways that are in harmony with your personal values. Making choices based on what you believe, and not what others believe." " "HAPPINESS is not a reward-it is a consequence. SUFFERING is not a punishment it is a result" .."A happy family is but an earlier heaven." We reap what we sow...
My Mami"I love my mother as the trees love water and sunshine - she helps me grow, prosper, and reach great heights."A mother is the truest friend we have, when trials heavy and sudden, fall upon us; when adversity takes the place of prosperity; when friends who rejoice with us in our sunshine desert us; when trouble thickens around us, still will she cling to us, and endeavor by her kind precepts and counsels to dissipate the clouds of darkness, and cause peace to return to our hearts.The strength of a family, like the strength of an army, is in its loyalty to each other.

Sisters are different flowers from the same garden.


It's always been hardest to write about you, I love you so much what ever you do.My son, you're my pride, my bright shining star you fill up my world, where ever you are.All of the memories and all of the days, you've showed me you care in so many ways.No mother could ever be happier than I to have such a son, that's such a great guy!I love you BIG MUCH Joey!

My beautiful daughters, I was blessed with two of you... You will never know how proud I am of all the things you do.You came into my world, so tiny and so small... And I was in awe at the wonder of it all.Then you placed your tiny hand into mine... There was no denying, my heart was yours til' the end of time.I have watched you both throughout the years, laugh,cry and grow... And it is difficult to know, that one day I will have to let you go.I just can't imagine, a day in my life without you... Because you are part of me and my love for you is true.So just remember, no matter how old you are or where you may be... There someone who loves you and needs you and that someone is me! I love you Soli & Mercedes Always

My Blog

WHY???

Why do women/men go from one long term relationship, were one was cheated on, into another relationship before the other side of the bed is cold??? Then they are with them for like a week and then the...
Posted by on Mon, 08 Dec 2008 06:16:00 GMT

This is for you and you & yeah, you too!

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.> > If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.> > Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.> > Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you ...
Posted by on Mon, 02 Jun 2008 21:52:00 GMT

Boredom is an emptiness filled with insistence, LOL!

"People who constantly trying to prove themselves to others,are really only trying to prove to themselves that they are something they're really not." Pathetic isn't it? "Facing a mirror you see merel...
Posted by on Sat, 23 Feb 2008 06:53:00 GMT

Things Ive learned...

These are excerpt from an Oprah Winfrey show, in which Maya Angelou  said these words:   I've learned that no matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it wil...
Posted by on Wed, 02 Jan 2008 05:27:00 GMT

Put your children 1st!!!

I just read an article from a Detroit newspaper telling a horrific story of a 7 year old girl who took several bullets for the mother. What kind of shit is that? I am soooo annoyed and tired of h...
Posted by on Thu, 06 Dec 2007 11:03:00 GMT

If you forget me

If You Forget Me I want you to know one thing. You know how this is: if I look at the crystal moon, at the red branch of the slow autumn at my window, if I touch near the fire the impalpable ash or th...
Posted by on Wed, 05 Dec 2007 08:57:00 GMT

look with your eyes not your heart

Why is it that men take advantage of women, or vice a versa? I'll say it's because we allow it to happen. Women/men fall in love and they see that we get blinded and therefore can be taking advantage ...
Posted by on Mon, 26 Nov 2007 12:37:00 GMT

Listen up ladies!

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...enough money within her control to move out and rent a place of her own, even if she never wants to or needs to...A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ... something perfect to wear if the employ...
Posted by on Sun, 25 Nov 2007 12:10:00 GMT

Woman of Character

What is a woman of character? To me, my mom is a woman of character, loyal, truthful, selfless and many other wonderful things. In the bible (don't run away now)there is a whole scripture telling what...
Posted by on Sat, 03 Nov 2007 20:26:00 GMT

Letting go

I often wonder what would have become of me if I didn't let things that upset me or hurt me go. In relationships nothing is easy, especially breaking up! I know that once you've been hurt or betr...
Posted by on Wed, 31 Oct 2007 06:08:00 GMT