I hate these absolutes since its what a person has inside that counts more,but there does have to be a certain physical chemistry. They should have some education, be employed, independence is a plus, 5'3-5'11 slender, average, and fit. They enjoy travel,outdoor activities, movies,and willing to suggest other activities that they enjoy. Down to earth easy going personality.Someone with the ability to discuss with making it an argument. Someone who will stand by her word and believes in good communication with their partner. Someone who is willing to take the good times and the hard times(notice I don't mention BAD times) had enough of those. Someone that makes you laugh after a bad day, and is willing to give and receive a good back rub. When they know that they are with a special person they will let them know it.