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Tom

I am here for Dating and Networking

About Me

MY THOUGHTSI think as a man, i have to strive to be my best before i can begin to think i have something to offer the one i will be with... it is for her that i train both my body and mind, so that i can both protect and challenge her both mentaly and physically. That is what i would expect from her as well.Just a guy who likes to have fun. I would say i am not a boring person, but i usually let the people i hang around make that decision.I like people, who are people and not pretenders, you know the type, the ones who imitate what they see on TV as if they have any idea what anything that they are imitating means. EXAMPLE: Wannabee "gangsta" MF here in germany, come on now, you can buy the clothes but ya got no street credit and its so see through. Especially considering you are here in germany... I have yet to see a ghetto here.PEOPLE WHO HAVE THIER OWN STYLE ONLY PLEASE!!!
.. aI dont care if you are a punk, nerd, or just plain evil, atleast you are you, and thats cool by me.Now there are those are the people who i have much respect for, if you would like to know anything about me just write.*A SHEEP: One who follows the flock, a buyer, a "Yes Sir, Yes Maam" Don't Rock the boat type.A WOLF: A go getter, make it happen, bring the noise type.A LION: Ruler of all they survey, snaps a finger and watches the world change.WHICH ONE ARE YOU???

My Interests

LIFE, AND LIVING IT TO THE FULLEST... LIFE IS A PARTY, ENJOY!!

I'd like to meet:

People who wrote more than me on there profile :)I think everyone would like to meet someone special, and in the end we would like that someone special to be someone you feel comfortable around. A person that accepts you with all of your little quirks and flaws. Someone that gives you that UNCONDITIONAL love. I think in that respect i would like to have a woman that is driven by her career, that wont slow down just because someone may say she "can't" do something. Someone i can stand with, and that can stand with me... But thats in the future, for now i say Carpe Diem have fun with no REGRETS!

-----------DOWNLOW LADIES---------------------------------Love you women to death ;). But downlow means, no matter what, no matter if you are mad at the person, never put anyones business out in the streets.-------TOO ALL WOMEN WHO ARE CONFUSED ABOUT US GUYS-------I was asked the other day why do the bad girls get the good guys. Heres the answer. Its because every guy wants the bad girl because shes not pretending to be the good girl, and the good girls are usually pretty boring, naive and inexperianced "needs training" Its not sexist, dont get me wrong, (my aunts would kill me). But really, who wants a virgin? besides a catholic priest, or a guy who has no self-confidence and is jealous and will treat you like crap.-------------WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR IN A WOMAN--------------1. Intellegent, i want to have someone who can challenge me 2. Strong, i dont really like it when someone is to needy. or when someone calls me 'BABY' in the first month of knowing them, that says they arent real. I need someone i can build an empire with! 3. Athletic, i think it says a lot about what one thinks of themselves 4. Classy, I like a woman who can dress and demands attention when she enters a room.--IF LOVE ISNT MADNESS, ITS NOT LOVE-----------------------If you find someone you are just physically attracted then thats good too sometime, but dont confuse love with lust, if it doesnt hurt, physically hurt like a drug addiction when that person is away then its not love... I know, i have had it before the kind of love you are a fool for, that you think will last a life time, that you would set yourself on fire to keep... The deep soul-felt thing... unexplainable... But she has to be what you are exactly looking for.

Music:

HIP-HOP, R&B, JAZZ, ROCK (WYCLEF, CARLOS SANTANA TYPE)

Television:

CSI

Books:

Tom Clancy, Steven King

Heroes:

HEFTY SMURF, BRAINY SMURF, PAPA SMURF.... TO MANY TO NAME