God determines who walks into your life and it is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay and who you refuse to let go. Don't let people, pain and problems of your past pause your present, punish your person, prison your potential and paralyze your progress.Trials and tribulations are going to come in this life's journey and they come to help us to build character and just know that these situations are temporary but character is forever. God uses our cirmcumstances to build character. Don't be bewildered or surprised when you go through the fiery trials ahead, for this is no strange, unusual thing that is going to happen to you. No one falls in love by choice, it is by chance. No one stays in love by chance, it is by work. No one falls out of love by chance, it is by choice.