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J.Em

I am here for Friends and Networking

About Me

So far what I've figured out is: I'm only human, always be true to yourself, love is forever, follow your dreams wherever they take you, and don't forget the memories that have made you who you are today. ~ My loved ones would say the best things about me, and my not-so-loved ones would say the worst things about me, so I guess it all just depends on perception. I'm starting to come to the conclusion that there are no mistakes, there are no coincidences - and everything happens for a reason.Now with all that said, I like to think of myself as someone that you can count on. Someone who likes the simple things in life, and tries to lead the best life possible. The kinds of things I consider make a good life: trustworthy friends, strong family, learned lessons of love, and constant growth. I strive full-force at the goals I set for myself, and almost always, I accomplish them.As for my future, well ~ I plan to leave my imprint on the world through my art. Writing, acting, dancing, directing, creating - it'll all work itself out in due course."Once you make a decision, the universe conspires to make it happen." - Emerson

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

Someone who looks for the beauty in imperfection. People who know how to treat others the way they would like to be treated. Anyone who knows how to laugh at life and lead a good one, and who's not afraid to be a dork. Also, anybody who is like-minded in their thoughts about social service and change, the power of a voice, and the ability that art has to enlighten the masses - that's a big plus!"Real love begins where nothing is expected in return." - H.R. Ebrahimi

My Blog

someone please tell me it will all be alright.

because i feel dead inside.i might be a drama queen, but i haven't let someone in like this in a very long time.
Posted by on Wed, 01 Apr 2009 11:09:00 GMT

Immigration Reform must be Demanded by the people!

"The Cost of Immigration Enforcement"Mayor Phil GordonAugust 21, 2008 - The Police Foundation Before I begin, I just want to recognize all of you -- the men and women who risk everything, every single...
Posted by on Thu, 29 Jan 2009 15:12:00 GMT

Some people want it all . . .

It's almost inevitable that around this time of year everyone starts talking about their evaluations of themselves and their lives. We seem to feel a need to let others know that things are going to ...
Posted by on Tue, 06 Jan 2009 03:54:00 GMT

Do You Dream About Me?

..Oh how I love thee, Kim Cattrall.
Posted by on Wed, 24 Dec 2008 03:45:00 GMT

Even an Angel

.. ..I <3 September!
Posted by on Sun, 21 Dec 2008 01:33:00 GMT

My Queer Opinions

I was asked to answer these questions for a friend's school project and was actually surprised by own answers - so I thought they were worth posting:How did the LGBTQ community/culture develop in Phoe...
Posted by on Tue, 02 Dec 2008 05:27:00 GMT

With 24 fast approaching;

21 was a big deal, obviously.22 was not.23 made me freak out.24 - feels like home. I don't know if it just has to do with coming into my own or feeling at home in my skin, but things just feel really...
Posted by on Thu, 20 Nov 2008 06:01:00 GMT

Pretty accurate, I’d say

ENFJ - Apparently, I'm "The Giver"Outgoing and friendly. ENFJs cheif concern in life is other people, and fostering harmony and cooperation, between themselves and others. Warm personal interactions-s...
Posted by on Mon, 20 Oct 2008 06:17:00 GMT

The good ole gay in me...

just some of the different sides of me and my views on love as best portrayed by these fine divas - the indie in me ..the classic queen in me ..and the contemporary romantic in me ...
Posted by on Mon, 20 Oct 2008 05:48:00 GMT

some days i look thinner, and some days i look fatter

but no matter what - i jiggle."I don't think you're ready for this jelly..."Hahahahahahaha!destinys child - bootylicious
Posted by on Mon, 13 Oct 2008 10:24:00 GMT