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About Me

Life is short, and I chose not to take life that seriously, and to enjoy myself doing the things I always like to do, with friends whom I like to get to know and be with.....that's my principle in life...................F O R G I V E N E S S ---------- I once heard that "To bear a grudge against someone is like burning down your house to get rid of a rat." Indeed, not being to forgive hurts no one more than yourself.People say or do things often inadvertently and mostly out of personal insecurity or ignorance. You may be just the punching bag for the day. Maybe the other person is envious or afraid of you. Most of the time, these people have their own problems to grapple with.Don't let their words and actions wear you down. They can only have a moment's effect on you. Then, depending on how you deal with the situation, they can continue to haunt you, or vanish like ashes in the wind. But only you can make that decision. Discouraging and spiteful words and actions from other people can only have the desired effect if you want them to. Give yourself the pleasure of a free spirit.I say that forgiveness is something we "give other people", but forgiveness, really, is a gift to ourselves. When we wreak vengeance on people whom we think have done us an injustice, we invariably end up bitter and resentful. Worse still, if our vindictiveness provokes retaliation, we might start a cycle of vengeance. And when you bear hatred within your heart, what you're essentially doing is destroying your own state of mind and potential to be happy.Each day yields opportunities for us to let go of or hold on to grudges, although the severity of each situation may vary. Are you better off holding on to them, or letting go?Greg Olson wrote that "Forgiveness is a profound power that we all have within ourselves to give. It's an unselfish act of kindness that allows another human being to begin the process of healing from their self-inflicted wounds."Life is too precious to squander on vengeful behaviour or bitter thoughts. Don't rob yourself of the opportunity to savour life the way it was meant to be savoured.Give others and yourself the gift of forgiveness.

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Well, I guess a good way for me to give you an insight about who I am is to tell you a little bit about how I see things.I think life is what you make of it, so relax and just try to have fun, =)Too many people out there take everything too seriously. Keepin' grudges, easily angered, overly judgemental and damn, it's usually about something superficial when you really look at it.I mean come on, almost everything we encounter in life is greatly based on the perspective we apply to it. Ever really look or listen to what's happening all around us?Some One Hundred Fifty Thousand people just got swallowed by a Tsunami, a Tsunami! Alot of those people were vacationing, there to not worry about anything, to get away from their headaches. A few seconds later, they're inhaling sandy, salty, sea-water.If you think you're promised tomorrow, you need to stop and smell what you're shovelin'.Most likely, the things we are stressin' about isn't as bad in comparisson to what alot of people out there have to deal with. I mean come on, we are online, seein' this with a computer...some people would rather eat, sh!t, some people can't even see.Perspective people, Perspective.Now by no means am I saying stress is never justified. I just really try to seek the best possible way for me to deal with a situation, so I don't blow a vein on my forehead or somethin'.Come on now people, It's all Gravy Babee!I try to live a pretty open & uninhibited lifestyle, my friend/s are quite on the same page, you know, easy going.So don't hesitate to spark friendship with me/us.Ask me ANYTHING, I love havin' FUN ; ), makin' new friends and livin' life to the fullest.I think real men don't have to rely on deceit, so I'm honest and I expect the same.I believe in earning life through effort, not excuses.I've long ago realized that I am not perfect, the world does not revolve around me, and it seems like the more I learn, the less I really know.So, just write me if you're wonderin' 'bout anythin'.Ask me, don't worry I don't bite, (unless you wants it) I'll get back to ya.We can also meet and go for a nice dinner and/or coffee chat to get to know each other. And pursue other interests, if there is chemistry....okie....hope to hear from you soon....cheers.

My Blog

METAL SCULPTURES

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When there’s a will, there’s a way, trust me....

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Something You MUST Read.....

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