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About Me

I am a beautiful mess!!!!! I am a single fabulous woman. I have made some great choices and some bad ones. I chose life good bad and indifferent. I love the great times and truly feel the sad ones but I believe you must take a stand and chose your destiny. I believe that you are the only one who can make you happy. I have loved and lost and I am better off and changed forever by each love. I believe that life is full of tests and treasures and its all in the stance you take and if you are humble and loving you will reap what you put out there. I am at a new point in life and my world is awesome as a mom and as a woman. I work on myself and do not think I need to change others it takes way too much from me but I am accepting of others as long as it does not cause damage to what I treasure more than anything or anyone. <

My Interests

I love to drum!!!!!!!!!! I love to sing and I like to dance. I am by no means fabulous but I love to have fun.I live life as a big fat honking adventure. I love to discover new things. I like cooking and I am not organized , so it is always good for a laugh.

I'd like to meet:

I would like to meet people who are very real and who are genuine. I want to meet my greatest inspirations, and my biggest fears. I would love to meet people who will call you higher without selfish motivation. I would love to meet people who love life in all aspects. I would love to have friendships with people who respect you for being both happy and sad without losing respect for you in the role reversals. I would love to meet God and ask him about his sense of humor, and what he sees in me that I may matter. I would love to meet people who are not giving up on a pure heart, and despite past hurts continue to grow and make themselves and this world a better place.I love true folks who are concerned about a bigger purpose. I would love to meet my soulmate, my perfect love and my best friend. I hope that I continue to meet awesome people to have long lasting friendships with.....

Music:

I love alot of different types of music. I like Enya, Korn,Nickel back, the toadies, techno, Velvet revolver.I don't stick to one category so I like music alot and lots of different types...

Movies:

The Seceratary, Moulin Rouge, Bend it like Beckham, all Kevin Smith movies(Jay and Silent Bob) Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon. I will always love Karate Kid movies because it was bonding time with my Dad.I do not do scary movies

Television:

Stand up comedy, CSI, House, Law and Order, Pretender, Profiler, Bernie Mac show, Family guy, Monster Garage, Trading Spaces

Books:

Sweet Potato queens book of love, God save the queen. I started reading this two months ago when my mom died and I was working three jobs at once. I needed to laugh and its fabulous. I also love Sarks...Succulent wild woman book. I think its great for men and women to read.

Heroes:

I love those who conquer fears.People who actually work like the money does not matter. My friends who love me even when I have not always been so great. My biggest heroe is someone I have not met but I am sure exists

My Blog

can I just pause for right now?

So I think if you have to look for a book to decide if your friendships are healthy then your true self already knows the particular friendship is not what you want or need. Why waste energy trying to...
Posted by Malissia on Thu, 10 Jul 2008 01:46:00 PST

random

I love learning. I love looking at life from different perspectives. I love the fact that you may not be where you want to be but you aren't dead. I love sacred moments, they are a few seconds here an...
Posted by Malissia on Tue, 08 Jul 2008 02:23:00 PST

the fog

I asm so over summer and it has just begun. I think I would like to sometimes know my purpose or atleast that there are lots of fabulous times in my life. I might be trapped into believing that things...
Posted by Malissia on Tue, 24 Jun 2008 11:20:00 PST

back home

So my head is still in a fog and I guess thats normal. I am headed into work in just a few minutes. I am so tired but I am hanging in there. Benaryl helps me sleep at night for the past two nights. My...
Posted by Malissia on Mon, 28 Apr 2008 09:10:00 PST

tears laughter and coffee

So I had to bury my mom. I also got to see my Godchildren Dillon, and Mecal.I am shorter than Dillon, who is thirteen. I come up to his armpit. And the beautiful Mecal and I had a grown up talk about ...
Posted by Malissia on Sun, 27 Apr 2008 06:11:00 PST

the funeral

So my mom was buried today. I almost wore a white dress, no not in disrespect but in celebration of her freedom. I cried so much when people shared about how involved she was in the church and how she...
Posted by Malissia on Sat, 26 Apr 2008 05:01:00 PST

my mom died so I am back for the funeral

So I got the call the other night that my mom had died at twelve thirtyty Tuesday afternoon. I cried alot and stopped because Hope did not need to see me upset, and very emotional. I forgot for a mome...
Posted by Malissia on Fri, 25 Apr 2008 07:01:00 PST

Hope turns two

So I have to say that Hope and I finally got into our own place!!!!!!! It is a girl haven and we love it!!!!!!!!! I am a barista at Tenessee Tech university and its at a small coffee store its fun. I ...
Posted by Malissia on Fri, 28 Mar 2008 11:53:00 PST

sanity or something like it

So I haven't blogged in a bit so here's the scoop......I love being a mom my daughter Hope who is the love in my life and who keeps me on my toes so to speak is more and more fun these days. She loves...
Posted by Malissia on Wed, 23 Jan 2008 08:03:00 PST

slow gin with arsenic?

She walked towards him staring at his face and his eyes...The time had passed so long and so quickly and she looked into his eyes trying to read him but overwhelmed with emotion she was unable to clar...
Posted by Malissia on Fri, 14 Dec 2007 08:12:00 PST