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About Me

I'm a 44 year old single father of one.I enjoy the simple things in life.I don't drink and I don't use drugs I love living life straight.I am in RECOVERY and have been for more than 20+ years.I do take my sobriety very seriously. It's a lot more fun to be substance free, I can deal with life and enjoy twice as much. I have a strong spiritual foundation pretty laid back,I try not to let things get me down. I always try to keep a positive attitude about what life throws at you and believe God never gives me more then I can handle.I enjoy spending time with friends when I can,since I mostly work afternoons,but I do find time. Friends are very important to me,it's nice to be accepted. I make friends with people easily,I'm a likable person. I like getting together a few times a month for dancing,which I'm not great at but I do ok. Also going out on Sundays and Wednesdays with them to listen to music and watch them play.Even though I live alone I do like to cook and if I have company all the better. There's nothing like being in good company for an evening in,a good movie,and a good diner. But I do like to go out from time to time and do what ever,I'm a planner. I love making plans,especially in the right company. I do like to show a woman the attention she deserves,and I don't mind a little pampering. I've been told I'm good at that. I always try to keep in mind that the right person is out there for everyone. Just have to have faith that MS.RIGHT and not Ms right now, comes into my life. I have no problems with making commitments. I don't believe in cheating or striking a woman. It's just not me and how I carry myself. My biggest love though is my daughter and the time I get to spend with her,which is every other weekend.found this fantasy layout at HOT FreeLayouts.com / MyHotComments

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

Someone who is honest and down to earth. Some one who doesn't use drugs and doesn't play games. Someone who enjoys a nice evening in with diner and a movie,I'll cook,no carryout. Going out from time to time and doesn't mind doing sober things,like getting together with friends and going dancing or getting together on any given Sunday and/or Wednesday nights to listen to music and watch friends of mine per form. Someone who likes to be pampered on occasions and be showered with attention but not put on a pedestal. Someone with good relationship coping skills,spiritual grasp on life,good communication skills,and not afraid to share feelings as well as thoughts. Someone who's not judge mental or pretends to be something their not. Someone sensitive but not insecure. Someone who's not afraid and runs away when the word LOVE comes up,and last but not least somebody who's mature enough that when a problem comes up she's willing to talk about it,instead of running away from it.I don't like quitters, and someone that's at least some what normal.

My Blog

Inventory: taking a look at myself.

I've come to realize that no matter what I do or how hard I try,I am not going to find that someone special ATLEAST any time soon. I'vehad 3 relationships(2 failed)(1 moved away)several 1 time only da...
Posted by on Mon, 16 Jun 2008 01:30:00 GMT

BREAKING UP

IT’S BEEN FOUR DAYS SINCE THE BREAK UP. I WANTED TO WAIT A FEW DAYS BEFORE WRITING ANYTHING. I DIDN’T WANT TO LET EMOTIONS GET IN THE WAY AND CLOUD MY JUDGEMENT. I NEEDED TO STEP BACK AND ...
Posted by on Thu, 03 Apr 2008 10:53:00 GMT

CONFUSED PART 2

I WENT ONTO SUNSHINES PROFILE TONITE LIKE I DO EVERY NIGHT AND WAS WATCHING HER SLIDESHOW AND NOTICED A NEW PIC OF A MAN. THE PIC WAS TITLED MAYBE SOMEDAY. WELL IT’S KIND OF STRANGE THAT SHE WOU...
Posted by on Fri, 28 Mar 2008 21:20:00 GMT

CONFUSED

IT’S BEEN THREE WEEKS THAT I’VE BEEN AWAY FROM A PERSON THAT I CARE A LOT ABOUT WHILE SHE TRIES TO FIND HERSELF. EVEN THOUGH I’M GIVING MY SUNSHINE SPACE I HAVE THIS DARK STORM CLOUD...
Posted by on Thu, 27 Mar 2008 21:16:00 GMT

LIFE SUCKS

WHY IS THAT LIFE CAN GIVE YOU SOMETHING SO WONDERFULL AND FIND IT AMUSSING TO TAKE IT AWAY?I HAD A BEAUTIFULL WOMAN IN MY LIFE AND NOW SHE’S GONE.SHE WAS MY REASON TO SMILE.NOW MY SMILE IS GONE ...
Posted by on Fri, 14 Mar 2008 10:14:00 GMT